Is this the ultimate truth of LIFE..??

India
May 2, 2011 6:51am CST
Hi friends.... The person whom I love the most in this world is my grandmother(my mom's mother). She is really very much nice person, kind, very much helping and a lovable person. But, though she is like this, god has given her a life full of sorrows... She was married at the age of 15 years, after that she was treated very much badly by her mother in law. But, still she took care of her mother in law till mother in law's death. After that, her elder son died in accident at the age of 26 only. He was married just an year before that. After that,his wife left the home forever and went to her parent's home. Grandfather was addicted to drinking wine. He is now suffering from paralysis and now grandmother itself is suffering from Cancer.... This means, her death is also full of troubles and pains and also due to poverty, she is not getting a good or satisfactory treatment. Her whole life was full of tears... Whenever I think about her, I can't stop my tears. But, I can't do anything for this... Why God give such painful life to good people only...?? Please, give your valuable suggestions and share your thoughts.
5 responses
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
3 May 11
There are wonderful souls in this world willing to go through great adversity in order that others might SEE. Look beyond the surface. There are miracles all around her. Even you are learning from all this, aren't you???? Look again then go give her the best pain killer that ever existed, LOVE.
• India
3 May 11
yes...my dear friend. & thanks for your valuable response. Have a nice day.
2 May 11
It sad to know what your love ones are going through right now but don't loose hope my friend, God did not give them pains to suffer but giving them a reason to trust with Him and holding on to their faith. Sometimes we have forgotten what God did for us to be saved and we blame Him if we are experiencing pains and sorrows.God is a good God and if you believe in His words that whatever you ask for anything in His name He will do it..according to John 14:14.
• India
3 May 11
Thanks dear, for your valuable response. Have a nice day.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
2 May 11
Everyone has pain in their life. Life isn't supposed to be easy. Life is about experiences. It is about learning to see past all the hardships and things we consider ugliness and seeing the beauty within.
@oninomar (505)
• Philippines
3 May 11
God is so wise and great to us. He love us even we lie and we sometimes don't recognize Him. God give us test and suffering to ensure and make us realized to return again to Him. God will not give us problems If He knows we can handle it. God give your grandmother that kind of test , because God knows that your grandmother is strong to overcome that. Believe in God and He will help us . Don't lose hope.!
• Philippines
3 May 11
No, dear. Life is painful. We have to live by it. But it doesn't mean that God doesn't love us. He does! He allows bad things to happen NOT ONLY TO GOOD PEOPLE, but also to those who are not-so-good. Because it is in these circumstances that God is able to reveal Himself. Think of these: How would we know and fully understand that God is a provider if we haven't experienced being in need? How would we know that God gives peace if we haven't experienced troubles? How would we know that God heals if we haven't experienced sickness? How would we know that God gives comfort if we haven't experienced pain? All of these boil down to one thing: God loves us more than we could ever think of, and He wants us to get to know Him more.