Why Some of Mylot Friends disappeared?

China
May 4, 2011 3:52am CST
Hi there, I am so busy these days, so I didn't here for a few month, when i come by todeay, i found some of my mylot friends not in my "Friends" group anymore? Could anyone tell me why? They deleted me or what? Because i really care about them, really worry lose these friends. Thank you for your time.
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11 responses
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
5 May 11
i think maybe they deleted you..but for reaSon, i dont know... add me if you want had a friends too :)
@youless (91163)
• Guangzhou, China
5 May 11
It is sad to see that some Mylotters leave Mylot. The reasons can be various. Such as they are currently busy in life, or they are tired of posting in Mylot etc. People often come and go in Mylot. I love China
@lkbooi (16101)
• Malaysia
5 May 11
Hi summerrainylily, we would find great change if we stay away from this site for quite some time. Few month is not transient, no wonder you couldn't find some of your friends are no longer in your friends list. As what I have learned from posts that I have read here, some mylot users like to tidy their friends lists regularly to keep them decent by deleting those who haven't turned up for quite some time. I don't think they have any bad intent but just for the purpose to keep the friends lists in an orderly manner If you really don't want to lose the friendships you can request them as your friends again. To avoid such undesirable situation happen again you can send them pm to inform them about your temporary leave in case the same thing would happen again. Happy posting and have a niceday
• United States
4 May 11
A warm re-welcome back to you to myLot. Since you were gone for a few months it could be that some members have not seen you around and decided that they wanted to clear out in-active members. I am one who has well over 700 friends and a lot of them are not active for several months so one can't help but wonder if they will come back or not and although I have not cleaned out my own list, it seems kind of tedious to find some members in our list to get to one of them. I would not worry too much about a list of friends, being that you are back surely you will continue interacting and create new friends shortly. Welcome back and have fun.
@thesids (22359)
• Bhubaneswar, India
4 May 11
Hi summerrainylily Well first check out whether they exist at mylot or have left mylot. If they havent you can find their profiles and look for the days they have not been around. If they have not yet left mylot, you can always add them again by sending out your Friendship Request.
• Philippines
4 May 11
Maybe they've deleted you or maybe their account got cancelled. The latter, though, is very unlikely because there are other users here who don't log in using their account anymore but their usernames are still present.
• Philippines
4 May 11
Some of your friends might have been inactive or maybe it was because you were inactive for a few months as well as you have mentioned. But that's okay, mylot has more room to make more friends and learn more about other mylotters. You might have lost some but you can always gain more.
@ptower76 (1619)
• United States
4 May 11
Friendship is really a very complicated thing even in real life not only online. Why they are not in the Friends group anymore? who knows except them. Only thing you can do is move on and get new friends. Maybe you will reconnect with them while you are moving around here and they will explain why they are no longer friends with you. Until then, welcome back.
• Philippines
4 May 11
Maybe they deleted you because you were not answering/posting for a few months. You can just search for them and add them back, or you can just choose other friends and add them. I'll add you :)
• Philippines
4 May 11
maybe because you weren't around for few months and they thought that you wouldn't be active anymore that's why they already deleted you. or maybe they accidentally deleted, we don't know. they have their own reasons for that. but don't be sad, stay happy! :)
@naija4real (1293)
4 May 11
Many people loose interest in keeping a friendship that is not heading anywhere. For you to keep friends you have to find a way of interacting daily with them. Most especially you can be answering posts or asking questions on mylot and if you keep doing that constantly that will make many user to take you as a serious person. So keep maintaining constant posts on mylot. if you will be away for a while just let those friends of your know that you will be on some holiday for a while.thanks