How to come out to a friend and tell her you're inlove with her?

Philippines
May 4, 2011 12:00pm CST
How are you going to tell a friend that you're in love with her? and how are you going to tell her that you're bi.? or just leave alone, don't waste time telling her everything? what's the best option?
3 responses
@oninomar (506)
• Philippines
4 May 11
I just tell her in a normal way. No other flowering words. Be natural when you say it, girls are really observant in many things. One of my regrets in my life was I was not able to tell to my bestfriend that I love her, I know she also feel the same with me. But time is too bad with us..:(
• Philippines
4 May 11
How are you both? are you still friends?
@oninomar (506)
• Philippines
4 May 11
Yes, but there is a gap now between us. We rarely communicate with each other sometimes no time. It is hard to imagine that you sacrifice your feelings just for the sake of your friendship. I'm afraid before that we would become a successful partner.
• Philippines
4 May 11
how come you have gap, you didn't tell her you love her right?
@simonelee (2718)
• China
19 May 11
i was once in this situation and it was so hard to admit to a friend that you have feelings for her. Acting naturally as if you don't like her is hard and i guess she has a hint over it but in denial or maybe afraid to ask. When i confronted her about my feelings as if nothing happened and her gestures towards me showed the same. She's sweet and accepted me. What hurt me most is that when everyone knew about our mutual understanding she denied it,created stories and left me humiliated. Where still friends though. But, i rejected those days.
• United States
4 May 11
Unless your friend is bi or gay then I suggest that you don't tell her because in most cases situations like these don't end up good. You might ruin the friendship that you have or she may be friends with you but she may want to keep her distant. I don't it's a viable option that you come right out and say it because then it will totally kill you if she pushes you away for being who you are and most importantly for letting out your feelings. But, if you feel that it is beating you down inside then tell her because you let out some way or some how.