Can a boy have girl as a best friend(not lover) and girl have a boy as a friend?

India
May 10, 2011 1:58pm CST
Can a boy have girl as a best friend(not lover) and girl have a boy as a friend(not lover)What is your opinion.
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• India
11 May 11
Hey of course. Why not? Many people proved that a girl & boy can able to be a good friends ( Only friends ). But both girl & boy should be in a good instinct in their heart. It is really very difficult to find the people like that. I am really very eagerly expecting a only friendship from a girl. But till now i am not fortunate to be a friend for a girl. I would like to share everything to my girl friend ( Not a lover ) and should be a well wisher & also to be a good advisor like many things which i feels to have a friendly relation ship with a girl.
• India
11 May 11
Wow ! Nice to hear. I am so glad now. Thank you so much for your nice reply. Everyone should have a friendship with opposite gender. Friendship in the sense. Not anything like love or dating. There should be only friendship to share everything and its really divine. And also very nice to hear that you have a good conversation with one of your friend. Once again thanks for your nice response :)
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
11 May 11
I have a close friend that is a guy it just so happened that he is effeminate so we have no interest at all to be his partner in relationship.
• India
10 May 11
Yes, a boy can have a best friend as a girl. Friendship is not going to differ whether the person is a boy or a girl. Friend is a friend
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
11 May 11
well im a girl... and my best friend for 5 years is a boy. he's the best! we've been apart from each other for 3 years i guess, cause he went to Japan to live with his family. (he's half Japanese) but he exerts all the effort he can to make me feel like he's still here. to make our situation not that difficult. i totally have no idea how to repay him for all his efforts. and for the past 1 year (and a half i guess, hehe) he's been working 2 part-time jobs (while studying as well) just to earn money so that he can visit back here in the Philippines. im so excited cause he'll be here this july! :)
11 May 11
Hi! Of course..it is possible for you to have a girl/boy best friend. Actually I do have a guy best friend. We shared a lot of secrets and I'm lucky to him him as my buddy. And there are good things if you do have an girl/boy best friend. Believe me, it's a good idea to have one. =)
@katieh (151)
10 May 11
Of course. Are you really suggesting that I couldn't have any friends who are male except my husband? How odd. I think I probably have more male friends than female ones.
@kinjalk (192)
• United States
10 May 11
Why not? people have those relationship all the time. There are tensions at times but you get over it. But YES you can.