Ever seen a bad mother?

hi, a mother really have a good heart in there child,sometimes we the child thinking that our parents dont love us when they never give what we want or wanted to do,sometimes that concerns turn to bad but the reality is good.and that happened to me,a rude sometimes.i know its bad and im trying to eliminate it.

I see you are in India. although different cultures, I believe there really are bad mothers all around us. The ones who put their own needs and desires ahead of their child's needs. Bad mothering infuriates me. The kind that really makes you want to say something to a stranger on the street - the kind that makes you thin, "Wow. If they treat their children like this in public, how badly do they treat this child at home?". It is very sad and very scary. As a daughter, I love my mom wiht my entire heart. She and I are so close and I would do anything for her. I am a mother also. A mother's love, though, is truly different. There is nothing like it.But the selfish women of the world must not feel this love becuase maybe they just love themselves to much. It saddens me that these children have to suffer.

I would have been good to my mother had she been in my life. I have based my entire life on not being like her though. I have dedicated myself to the care of my children. For a long time I thought that my shortcomings were because my mother had left me...I realize now that they were just my shortcomings. That was a very long time ago..when I was a teen I thought that way...we grow and we learn. I hope that when my children think of me that they think of a good mother.

Yes sometime in eating stalls and supermarket, the mom can be seen dragging and screaming at the children.Some mom use profanity and coarse language to scream at the children which is quite embrassing for the other people and the children also.Sometime mom can be heard saying the child is stupid and such, which is not nice to hear and demoralised the child.

Yes, it was crazy, almost turn into a street fight. She yelled at me, well I begun and I threatened her. To hit her own daughter was easy now to face me even if I was so smaller she couldn't. What a coward, hitting her own daughter and humiliating the little one like that.

Thank you for your moving story. I have a good mother eventhough sometimes she scolds me a lot but I feel lucky when I have her in my life. I usually massage her at night because she suffers from spinal problem. I love her. You are a lucky mother.

a lot of times. in our neighborhood, there are a lot of bad mothers. children are not the same in showing their affection to their mothers. each has his or her own unique way of showing but one will still stand out probably because you, as a mother, has that trait. i tried to be a good daughter though i was not close to my mother.

Hi Kalyani, I completely agree with you. Mother is the greatest gift we could ever have in our lives. I am very fortunate have a loving mother who is supportive in every way. Sometimes, people forget the pain a mother has to go through to make sure their child is alright. They become selfish and forget that a mother can only them deeply and truly. I respect my parents very much. I give all the credit as to my success to my parents. As a child, i did lots of mistakes and never realised the true meaning of parents. Now that i am away from them, I never realised i'd miss them so much.I am sure after i become mother myself, i will figure out the real pain that a mother has to go through to raise her child!