In relationship don't listen to what other says or tells you

well, for me in relationship we just need trust and faith by each other. Trust is greatly the best in a relationship. Without trust, good relationship can`t exist.

hi sriroshan- yes we believe our partners if what he/she saying to us ..but sometimes they lie..and it is because we love our partners so much we pretend or blind what we see or feel because of our feelings ..sometimes for me we listen the people around us..but we have to talk still our partner if that is true..then if you feel he is saying the truth then don't make an argue....

I don't quite agree. Advice is needed in any relationship because they are the ones to see it clearly as an outsider. They can give any form of advice so long we take it with caution, check out the facts instead of believing blindly. Most relationships breaks down due to rumours, listening to people than believing in our loved ones. Since they are our loved ones, we should always give them the benefit of doubt right?

Everyone has an agenda! You know the person giving you the information. What you have to do is put it into context. What is their agenda in telling you this information. What do they hope to achieve with the telling. If they are really talking to you so the relationship will fall apart, what do they get out of it. Look to the behavior. Understand the agenda, then move on. You always have a choice to believe the information or not. If you think the friends objective is harmful to you, you know this is not really a friend.

Hi there! I think it depends, sometimes we should listen but sometimes we should. First, like what you've said, we should not listen to others because there are peole who are trying to ruin your relationship or maybe they just don't like the one you chose or maybe they just envy your relationship. Second, we should listen sometimes for the reason that they might saying the truth. Some people are just concerned of you not to end up hurt or broken hearted. The best thing to do, in my oipinion is to listen..just listen.. then it's up to you if you will believe the things he/she said.

Agree on that... In a effective relationship one must consult first with the others.. Sometimes relationship ended up because of so many issues with their relationship which came from the people surrounds them.. Many relationship ended with nothing because they do not have trust with each others, and they never intended to communicate with each others.. Sometimes we must seek first the opinion of your partner in many matters before concluding and before listening with other.. There are so many people around you that their goal is to separate you from your love ones.. sometimes they are just close to you but their purpose is not for your own good. As a lesson for this, we must know always all the people that surrounds us, we think that they are favor on us, but they are not.. we think that they belongs on our side but we are wrong.. We must be observant on the people we met and we must first know them better before trusting them and sharing them our thoughts.

hello sriroshan, you have to listen but you dont need to jump into a conclusion all at once. you have to weight things out, observe. because when in love, one is blind. have a nice day. ann

Yes, when we are in a relationship, we should trust our partner and not some other people. Whatever other people say about our partner, we can listen but we need to be the one who make the correct judgement. It is not right and unfair to our partner when we just listen to the other person. it is not worth it when someone else purposely wants to break the relationship.

hi sri, I think you have your points regarding trusting those who is close to you. On the other hand, I will listen to those have comments regarding my partner BUT still keep my my observation secret. It's true, there are people who will deceive you. There are people who wants to hurt you and see you going thru turmoil. I have seen also a friend who doesnt take the advice from others and ended up getting herself hurt terribly. So...it's hard to judge and said. Let's keep it to an open minded way.

This is a little complex, i mean i agree with you in my heart, but in my country China, many youth who in a relationgship with somebody else always want their partent give them some suggestions such as the man her dating with is good or not. many partent can do some research about the man to look wether his is a reliable person or not, if he is unreliable, the girl's partent will not agree their daughter dating with that man.

I don't think so because in relationship you have to be in full possession of your sense to recognize who is honest and who is a lair. First listen and then analyze it carefully. Good luck to you

This is little complex situation.few people doest like relationships and always want to pinch you couples in some or the other way.But if your relationship is strong and have good understanding,then try to hear them,but never listen to them and take it seriously.