What's the relationshipe between u and ur ex-boyfriend/ex-girlfriend?

@Jailey (107)
China
May 13, 2011 11:49pm CST
Many people think if they can not be together, then they will not be friends any more, why for this? just because u know too much about each other? Some time that may also be a good frien I think, for u know the needs of each other, and u know u will not be together any more, and also u do not want to hut each other, why not be a friend? When met again, just smile, and help?
4 responses
@MizzLadyB08 (1174)
• United States
14 May 11
Me and my ex are not on speaking terms. When was together it was like we had two different reasons for being in a relationship. I wanted a serious relationship while he just wanted a booty call when he needed it. Therefore I had to let him know how I feel about the situation and we kind of went our separate ways.
@Jailey (107)
• China
14 May 11
No matter what hapened before, just enjoy the life u have now, and thia is the most important thing.
• Philippines
14 May 11
It depends on the nature of how they broke up. Some couple broke up with a bad ending so they chose not to be friends with their ex, some couple broke up with a good ending and still chose to be friends with each other.
@Jailey (107)
• China
14 May 11
yeah, and may people think it is hard to be friend with the extra
@tina256 (190)
• China
24 May 11
well,i can descripte it very well . i dont have any comunication with my EX for a long time .despite we dont have a happy ending ,even fought to worse ,but actually we are still friends .just we dont get much more touch with each other . for now ,we just say hello when online both ,just so so .for regrading "help",i think that could be weirod.i think for me ,when i find there is no way to solve the problem ,expect him ,so i will ask help from him ,or not ,i do not . good day .
@tammy27 (1241)
• Philippines
14 May 11
depend on the couple. whether they broke up in a negative way with all the misunderstandings and stuffs like that, or if they broke up in a peaceful way, the next step between their relationship still depends on them. if they want space for a few months or years then after that is a good friendship then good, or a plan to start a relationship again, then good as well. but if one or both of then prefer to be in silence, well they're still the one who makes their choices.