What qualities? What flaws?

@didi13 (2927)
Romania
May 16, 2011 7:00am CST
Most times we are not able to properly define the most important qualities and any defects that keep us instead of evolution. And yet, to open doors to happiness, we should know that we have, we would not have ... I am creative, persevering, serious. I, I think, my main professional qualities that make me stand up in a world that is increasingly hard to find your place. And if we just talk about issues not related to career, are loving, attentive, honest. We strung together some of the qualities that, once we've identified and I have assumed, I accept them and use them as much as skillful in my walk through life and the world. But I and many flaws that I could identify almost as easy, only took me a few years before I managed to accept them as mine. Once we identify the defects, we are not half forgiven, but on fourth cured. It's our first step toward solving shortcomings that keep us together. But the approach is much more difficult than we imagined. We are first to recognize not procrastinate. We hide the flaws first, before us, and then in front of others, extending our imperfection disease. I am rushed, distrustful, messy. In addition, possessive, hard forgiving, inconstant. I was not easy to hear unpleasant truths about myself and not assume it to me. It is easy to recognize me, again and again, but I know as I practice my chance to become better, stronger, more noble.
2 responses
@Cannonball (3636)
• France
24 May 11
First thing I think when I read you is that you have the ability to recognize your flaws and this is a huge quality ! It makes you able to work on it and change yourself this way, if you really want to change yourself. I mean in my case, I'm not really sure if there are flaws I could change but I try to learn to use them as a living impulsion. For example turn anger into constructive power etc...
@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
25 May 11
I liked the answer, thanks for sharing...
@polaris77 (2028)
• Bacau, Romania
16 May 11
I think we all know that nobody's perfect;we all have strong points and flaws and we have to identify and assume them,and since we're far from being perfect,we have to understand that we live in an imperfect world,but that's what makes the world and each of us more fascinating.Anyway,to improve ourselves we must be aware of our weak points and I think we can improve if we know them,so it's not a shame to assume one's flaws,on the contrary,it is an act which can lead us to progress.
@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
16 May 11
How relative, is the perfection! A hundred people can look the same and each can to describe it completely different! A hundred people can judge a work and as many opinions may appear, each in terms of judging their own world view and life. No, we are not perfect and it's good, we're not robots. People make mistakes, people have faults, just that is the charm. Thanks for response.