Do men like fat women

Bulgaria
May 20, 2011 10:09am CST
Today I talked to a friend itya told me that her husband no longer like it because it was thicker. Well I think that it is not right all changing. It is important to be ourselves who does not like his work. We must be ourselves.Is shared.
13 responses
@millertime (1398)
• United States
22 May 11
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some men do like women of size. It's all a matter of attraction and repulsion. Personally, for me there are a lot of factors that go into being attracted to a person or not besides their weight. But, there is probably a degree of extra weight that would turn me off. It would also depend on the woman's build. Some women carry weight differently than others and even though they aren't slim, they are still very sexy. Without knowing more details about the relationship you are speaking of, it's hard to give an opinion. If she has just gained a little, it shouldn't make that much difference but maybe she has gained a lot of weight. Has she just let herself go or is she trying to control her weight? It's easy to blame the husband but I think that in a committed relationship, one should try and make the other happy if they can. If my partner told me that she thought I was gaining too much weight, I would try to lose it and make myself sexy to her. Not doing so would show that I don't care about her feelings and am not willing to make any kind of sacrifice for her. I've been with slim girls and a couple that were not so slim but in each case, I was attracted to them as they were at the time. It is possible though that you can be attracted to someone and find them sexy as they are, but if they change drastically enough, maybe you wouldn't find them attractive anymore. Finding someone physically attractive isn't something one can control, it's all a matter of feelings and feelings can change too.
• Bulgaria
22 May 11
Yeah right. Very true written.All according depends on ourselves.Have a nice day!
• Philippines
22 May 11
Yes, they have their own wa of seducing men, Even though they are very fat. I can attest to that. :)
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• Bulgaria
22 May 11
So it is! They may also offended as anyone else. Everyone has that quality.Have a nice day!
@RamRes (1725)
• Argentina
22 May 11
I do like fatties very much, I see them and found something "extra" that makes them so sexy!! . One time, I dated a fat girl I met on the net, and was a good relationship the time it lasted, I was happy to be with her. But I know, my opinion is not the same as the majority, and I know most men will not like chubby. So bad for them. It's a matter of personal likings and preferences I guess, each one wants to see different things. About your friend, I think that if the husband left her when she grows fatty, he never loved her in the firs place. A man in love will be with her girl at all times regardless how she looks, but reading your story it seems that he doesn't loves she and only wants a woman to play.
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• Bulgaria
22 May 11
Everyone has the right to choose.Everyone has different taste.It is important to you so more people will respect you as a person.Thanks for the reply and nice day!
• China
21 May 11
I think someone's appearance is not important,that someone's soul is really important.So I won't change my evaluation of someone.
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• Bulgaria
21 May 11
To look not at all important to me.but there is a saying on clothes and meet in mind when sending and obviously most people are. Have a nice day!
• India
21 May 11
well i am a boy and i like some what chubby gals rather than skinny girls. i like women with curves and some fat and muscles rather than bones.
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• Bulgaria
21 May 11
Yes everyone has their own taste and every other women like him.However, this is a matter of personal taste.Good for you. nice day!
21 May 11
men if really loves u will not see your outer looks . they will read your heart...not your fatness.....i think men doesn't like to go anywhere with fat women bcoz of complex they fear of their friends ....but if they really love women then no one can jealous them.
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• Bulgaria
21 May 11
Yes there are those men who are ashamed of your friends to show his wife.Well then it means they are not his true friends because friends should respect the choice of boyfriend. Have a nice day!
@mauricel (113)
• Philippines
21 May 11
Not all men doesn't like big girls. It is how you keep yourself looking good and pretty even you are gaining weight. Try to mix and match you clothes and have your hair done to give you a new and better look. Try to put on some colors in you. You will definitely boost your confidence and you will feel sexier that being fat. But see to it that you will NOT gradually maintaining your weight increase.
• Bulgaria
21 May 11
Yes very much want women to be weak.Sometimes this can be achieved no other way.So women should always stylish and sometimes clothes can conceal some excess weight. Have a nice day!
• United States
21 May 11
Seems to me that it is all about preference. Some do and some don't. Same with women they favor some and some they don't. So all in a matter of preference and if they love the person.
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• Bulgaria
21 May 11
Yes when there is love no matter whether you are fat or thin.Just a matter of perspective.Have a nice day!
@joystick (1680)
20 May 11
I think that there are alot of men that prefer the larger woman, to the skinny woman.I think that both are equal, for the reason is that they can both have great personalitys.I feel that there are some men that will only want a larger woman, as there are people that it is what floats their boat.
• Bulgaria
21 May 11
Yes everyone has the right to choose.And there should be a thick and weak people.For so that we can choose.Have a nice day!
• India
20 May 11
It doesn't really matter how you look in relationships. If husband hates his wife because she is fat then thats not right. We should understand happiness is important in life not how we look, fat or slim, good or bad. If you are happy with your partner, that's enough. Do not think about anything else & contimue being happy. There are some people who hate fat women & some people who like them. It all depends on how you think & what you want in life.
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• Bulgaria
21 May 11
Yes very rightly so f.You must love the person next to us whether weak or fat.But as you say depends on the minds of man.Have a nice day!
@goldeneagle (6775)
• United States
20 May 11
Well I do not really like FAT women, but I actually like a woman with a few extra pounds on her. I see some of these women walking around who try so hard to be skinny that they end up looking like walking skeletons. They are not attractive to me at all. I would rather have a woman that at least looks healthy...
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• Bulgaria
21 May 11
The most important thing is to be alive and healthy. Because if there is no health there is nothing.For me it's not what the man in appearance but what Soul. Have a nice day!
@webearn99 (1744)
• India
20 May 11
It is a fact that men do like their women fat. Fat in the right places. The word is voluptuous.
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• Bulgaria
21 May 11
Very well said.I agree with you.nice day!
@jhudy101 (373)
• Philippines
20 May 11
hmmmm im kinda lost on this but if only for the line do men like fat women, well ask an italian coz i have talked to a few and they would answer you like, im italian and i like my woman with meat on her bones ;) so there, it means they like a woman even when already chubby. but anyway, if the guy loves you enough, i guess it would not matter at all. he would probably say weight is just a number hehe
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• Bulgaria
21 May 11
Do many men find fat women attractive are not doing. If you're a woman you must love what one is. Despite thick or not.I think out of respect for this woman should not speak. Have a nice day!