Is it common to fight physically when couple's quarelling?

@janey84 (546)
Australia
November 19, 2006 4:03pm CST
I often see couples fight with each other, where the girl would slap,scratch and the guy would kick,punch and pushed the girl.Is this right?Is this common? will u do that to ur partner no matter how angry u r??
3 responses
euniceeleanor
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
20 Nov 06
oh! that's so unhealthy! why not sit down and talk over the matter instead of the violence. truthfully, i'm scared to know of such abusive relationship. i believe that if there's any argument, it's better to talk over the matter in a nice way. well, i will never do that to my bf ...but i once slap an ex-bf cos i found out that he's two timing me...
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janey84
@janey84 (546)
• Australia
20 Nov 06
then he deserved to be slapped...lol..if my bf is found unfaithful... i'll do more than that...oops..hope he didn't c this...lol
sedel1027
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
20 Nov 06
Out of all the relationships I have been in, I have never had it happen. That doesn't mean it is very common. I wouldn't stay with anyone who was that way. To me that is an abusive and unhealthy relationship.
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janey84
@janey84 (546)
• Australia
20 Nov 06
yea..i think so too...last time i saw my friend being punched and kicked..then the next day they r ok... when i asked her about it..she said beating is loving...what!!??
lingli_78
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
20 Nov 06
no, it is common and it is not right... it is violent... i do argue a lot with my husband but no physical abuse involved...
janey84
@janey84 (546)
• Australia
20 Nov 06
good 4 u...coz there'r still lots of couples especially asian...they still wack each other