how would you handle this?

@Lexus656 (672)
United States
May 22, 2011 10:33am CST
Ihave an extremely odd situation with my step sister. We've always been close bit all the sudden shes totally blocked off my side of the family even her dad. Were all at a loss she acts like her childhood was so bad but she never did without or had any problems with any of us. She started going to a new churn and jer mom wouldn't allow her to spend much time with is but we were all still pretty close. We attended her wedding a few weeks ago and since shes been stopping to see my two little boys. But while shes here doesn't acknowledge me or my husband very much. I don't know how to handle the situation should i still let her see the kids when she treats the rest of us horribly. She made the comment that she doesn't feel like her relationship with us was going anywhere so what would you do?
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@cream97 (29175)
• United States
22 May 11
Hi. Lexus656. I think that you should sit down with her and have a heart to heart talk with her. Tell her that you love her and that you are hurt by the way that she is acting towards you all. All that I can say is that I hope that she starts to treat you all better, because if not, then you may have to distance yourself and your kids away from her. It is sad that you may have to do this, but why be around someone that does not really want to be around you? Don't let her attitude make you bitter, you just need to let her come to her senses.
@Lexus656 (672)
• United States
22 May 11
I think i am going to distance the kid's from her talking ain't working. To me shes being selfish she isn't thinking about anyone but herself. She didn't want to hear our side. Plus i don't think she will come around on a regular basis i don't want then to get hurt.
@sentshan (40)
• Jamaica
3 Jun 11
If I was in your situation I would let her know how I feel. That is your sister you must can talk to her. If there is no communication between you and her then it doesnt make any sense having here com eover and see your kids.