I think today , all guys need money to have a pretty girl , what all think?

Romania
May 23, 2011 11:01am CST
I'm 19 years old and i can tell all that when I go university , everyday I see nice girls with ugly boys and this show me that money can buy a girl.If I was wrong, please just give me some example.I'm scared for the future.Where humanity will go? The love will disappear?
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18 responses
@Bellapop (1281)
23 May 11
You have completely the wrong idea, not all girls fall for money, and the same with guys I don't think they would like it if the girl was interested only in his money. And I'm sure guys are intelligent enough to know when a girl is only artist money. The girls, looks aren't everything, so the girl may not choose a guy from his looks but more for his personality – whereas on the other hand, I find that a girl's pretty face is more important for a guy.
• Philippines
23 May 11
yeah! men are more drawn to pretty faces which most often than not hides a really crummy personality, if there is a personality at all...
• Philippines
24 May 11
all i can say is hahahahahhaa
24 May 11
maybe you are right but girls' choice between rich and poor guys depends on their economic quality.in some countries especially like eastern europe many girls want their boyfriends should be rich
@momof3kids (1903)
• Singapore
24 May 11
When I was at the polytechnic, there was this older guy who joined us when he was 24 years old, seven years older than most of us. He was not good looking but when i was paired with him in practical workshop, he was so patient that all I saw was a great guy. Soon all the girls felt in love with him. I dunno if age will make any difference but if you are a great guy, all the girls will love you.
• Romania
24 May 11
Age make difference . Please guys do not say me that with 1 $ it is love. This is a stupid relationship , child relationship.I talk here about 18-25 years relationship.Just think a little. You go to see a movie ( maybe cost 5 $ or more) and to invite her in a nice place to drink something.And if you want to have privacy it will be more more hard,if you don't have money to go with a girl somewhere.. this relationship will not be a future relationship or a love relationship.This will be a child relationship
• Singapore
25 May 11
You are missing the point here. This guy I told you about has not taken any of the girls out. All he has done is to wow the girls with his being so patient and undertsanding. If he has dated any of the girls is only after they have known him to be a nice guy. It seems to me that if a boy's intentions are just to be intimate with the girl/s, the girl will smell it a mile away and will stay away. No amount of money will attract a smart pretty girl, only the pretty gold diggers with low morals. On contrary to your statement, a relationship built without a lot of money is a lasting relationship. A child relationship as you put it is a union between a money digger and her rich partner and is the one which is always superficial.
@paopaolar (226)
• Philippines
25 May 11
I think what you are talking about is not love. There is no love with relationships that only cares for money and material things. Don't worry, people who do that are not really in love. People who are in love won't care for money at all.
• Romania
25 May 11
Ohh really? Do you think that with 1 $ / day you can have a girl near you , to be your girlfriend? I don't think friend.Just think a little..If you want to make out with her..you need something to be more nice, or if you want to make to drink a cola or to eat something with her in a restaurant , you need some money.Love with no money it's at 16 years old . When you have 20+ years old , the love grow if you have money.If you are a poor man,You will don't have
• Philippines
23 May 11
"I see nice girls with ugly boys", how can you label someone ugly? What if that ugly person for you is handsome in the eyes of that girl? I just hate this notion, especially since many people refer it to my relationship with my fiancée...some say I'm too beautiful for him, but I don't see it that way, for me, he is very handsome. Yes, he is a bit financially stable now but he wasn't when I committed myself to him. There might always be cases where women use men and bleed them dry but this is not always the case, because LOVE does exist... and LOVE sees not only what is in the surface but most of all the beauty of the person within...
• Philippines
23 May 11
oj and me - taken last January at the Sinulof Festival!
now, here's a photo of us...
@laniekins (4585)
• Philippines
25 May 11
In my view today's female is more materialistic than before, well who can judge, there are lot's of gadgets invented, price are incredibly increasing and fine dining/mall are everywhere and cost of living is getting high and high-tech and lastly affectionate. Who would date a cute guy who has no car and money? Or maybe they really love the guy, now it doesn't matter if you are cute or not as long as the girl/boy loves you and accept for who you are. I've seen a good looking guy with a ugly girl. About me, my bf is not that cute but definitely not ugly and he is poor, yeah he don't have work and he didn't finish college, good thing I have the job to support my needs. I even use my own money for our food and transportation expenses. I understand that, we've been together for quiet sometimes. I still go for mutual love not just for the money.
• India
24 May 11
Money can buy every thing, it can buy a woman, not a wife, it can buy a house never a home, all girls can't be bought, you got some wrong information, love is not limited to body, it is emotional.. Thanks for sharing, welcome to mylot God bless you, have a nice day ahead. Professor ‘Bhuwan’. .
• Philippines
24 May 11
yeah and all girls need money to be pretty too......
@donna22 (1120)
24 May 11
Maybe there are girls who only like men for money but Im certainly not one of them and I dont think its a general thing either. You say these boys are ugly but maybe the girls who are with them dont think so. If these girls wanted men for their money them Im sure they could find good looking men who have money. You talk about love but you have judged these boys as being ugly. Would it be love if they were handsome and rich?
• Philippines
24 May 11
heeeeeeeey.keep quite guys.here's the fact..Teenage girls want handsome guys..matured ladies need not so handsome but big pockets..who disagree?So guys including me,we make sure our pocket is more handsome than us..
@ebuscat (5949)
• Philippines
24 May 11
For me your feeling is not true love because true love can wait and it is not vain.
@ddaguno (3110)
• Philippines
24 May 11
Some girls dig rich guys and some dont care who they are with as long as the guy has money but that's not the case all the time. Where i'm at, there are dome girls who spend for their guys. They spend for their boyfriends' food and clothes because they feel that they will lose their man if they dont do this. Their actions make me think that there is a shortage of men here.
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
24 May 11
It doesn't mean that all ugly guys has the money,if they have the money then thr first thing those guys will fix their faces right (ugh!) If i dated with a guy who is not handsome and let's say is really rich (uhmmm okay i am not that pretty huh)... it's not because he is rich and all i am interested is his money. I dated him because he is a good person,that matters mosts and not the face or the money that counts. welcome to mylot
• Philippines
24 May 11
This statement can be unfair to girls out there who is honestly in love with a beast. You can't really tell whether the girl is out for money or she's just truly madly in love with the guy. Maybe the guy despite his bad looks may have good attitudes. That could be attraction to girls. Or the guy might be a master in attracting opposite gender and that money is just a bonus. You can't just tell. It is really hard to judge people just because of their looks. Maybe you have a say on the matter if you personally know the person. If your broke, personally unpleasing and don't have a girl, look at your attitude.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
23 May 11
Money will not always get a guy a pretty girl. It may only get him somebody who wants to use his good intentions with a price tag to match, it is what you reveal to the world that shows your character. Money is only secondary to your true worth.
@stary1 (6622)
• United States
23 May 11
While you might be correct in some cases, I don't think you would be in all cases. Looks only go so far. Often when one first meets someone it may have influence but as you get to know them the not so attractive become more attractive if you really like them, and the attractive become not so attractive if you find they are nasty people. Money doesn't really make a huge difference in attraction for me, though money is certainly important to have. I remember my dating years I would much rather go out with a poor guy who I really liked that a rich guy who was a jerk.
23 May 11
That's like saying "men only like pretty girls". It's a generalisation and, as such, isn't true. Every single human being is different and unique. That means every single human being looks for something different. Yes, there are girls who want money. Equally, there are guys who only want beauty. Thankfully, they're the stupid ones who I'm not interested in. Intelligence, humour and honesty are much, much more important to me (though as it happens my fiancee is absolutely gorgeous - and we have hardly any money at all, so there!). As for the future, it'll be much like the past and the present: marketing companies will continue to try to convince everybody that they have to look a certain way, earn a certain amount of money, think certain thoughts and conform to certain standards to be loved (all of which require buying their products, of course)... and all the smart people will know they're talking rubbish.
@783748 (179)
• Philippines
23 May 11
I don't think that this is true. It just so happens that love fell between a pretty girl and an ugly guy. This is possible. Maybe it's the guy's personality that made the girl fall. But I don't discount the fact that there are some cases that guys do use their money to get a girl. I'm just saying that whatever happens, in the end, love will still prevail so don't get scared.
@jayen28 (84)
23 May 11
I sorry to disagree with your opinion,not all the pretty girls with an ugly man means that man is a rich guy, because i have many friends that they really in love and happily married now with a man lack of looks but with a good heart and good character. i accept the fact that good look is always come first when you courting a someone you like but when it comes in true love you never see what good or bad to someone you love, that why they always say that. Love is blind that lover can't see. Do you agree with me? when the time will come and you will fall in love, you will understand what i've said. When you asked yourself, why you love her/him and you know the answer that's not love. but if you never explain why i think you'll the love that you waiting.