Things to remember when in relationship..?

Philippines
May 23, 2011 8:18pm CST
For me, Don't expect too much in a relationship, because you're not the one holding your future.. you will just end up miserable if things didn't go the way you expect it to be... how about you guyz? what are the things to remember when in a relationship?
4 responses
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
24 May 11
It sounds like: Don't give your 100% love until you are sure he/ she gives 100% of his/ her love. The problem is when I fell in love it was always deeply and when I couldn't get what I expected, I would be disappointed and left.
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
25 May 11
I am sorry for your best friend and thank you for the advice. I fell in love deeply but I still don't think that I can love others full 100%. So, I guess I am safe...
• Philippines
24 May 11
Relaionships are hard. The most important thing to remember is to compromise. if you love your partner, you will compromise and vice-versa. That is what I beleive in.
• Philippines
24 May 11
Relationship is very hard especially if you're the only one who is serious about it...
@naps22 (31)
• Philippines
24 May 11
when you are in a relationship, you should first know why you entered it. is it just for fun or are you really serious about it. if you are serious, know your responsibilities as a partner. show him/her how much you love him/her but do not expect anything in return. expect to discover his/her flaws and try to accept who he/she is. do not say "change for me", instead you should be the one to change for the better. invest your trust to that person whom you love because a healthy and fruitful relationship starts with TRUST. it is the basic formula of all.
• Philippines
24 May 11
"Change for me" ... a lot of people say that.. I Hope they would change for the better..
@tiina05 (2319)
• Philippines
24 May 11
hello, I think you are right because it is always disappointing to expect to much from other especially if you are not holding your future like what you have said. It is really sad that words but I always prepared that one. For me, if you are in the relationship you must be yourself dont ever change who you are.
• Philippines
24 May 11
Most of the people change just to get someone they love...some change for the better and some are not... It feels good if you're always being yourself.... ^_^