what to do

@cormiera (278)
United States
May 24, 2011 2:00pm CST
im in love with a great man and my ex wants me back i still love him but dont want him and noww he keeps following me around and tryin to always talk to me not really worryin me just buggin me and my man wont say anythin to him about it what should i do?
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@nitty66 (207)
• Singapore
24 May 11
I think you just couldn't make up your mind. A little fickle minded, this happens, it's human nature. That's your dilema now. First ask yourself who you deeply in love and ofcourse security also plays a part . Then make a decision and be concrete with it. Tell the person - firmly - yes or no. Be blessed with your love.
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@cormiera (278)
• United States
24 May 11
ty ty hun and yes i am standin my ground and i have finally told him once and for all to leave me be and his ex is commin to get him and i will finally be able to live my life and peace with my current bf at least i hope thats one idiot gone now we need to get rid of my bfs ex and we shall be great
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@Jesuriel (269)
• United States
24 May 11
But how do you feel about your current boyfriend? If you love your ex, then you should probably go back with him.
@cormiera (278)
• United States
24 May 11
i love my current b/f more and he loves me but my ex just hasnt grown up any he still acts like a lil kid and all he wants to do is play games and im kinda gettin too old for that
@Jesuriel (269)
• United States
24 May 11
Tell your ex to gtfo. You have to do something first so that your current bf actually does something about it. He may be wondering why you're letting your ex intervene in your relationship.
@cormiera (278)
• United States
26 May 11
yea but idk i feel that its his place to step in and be a man when my ex doesnt listen to me and leavve pull a dadddy moment ya know lol
@Roopjyoti (101)
• India
26 May 11
I have been suffering from the same problem. My ex girlfriend want me back. On the other hand she is already get married. I don't understand why see want me when she has a husband who loves her too much.
@cormiera (278)
• United States
26 May 11
yup yup but see im happy with my bf and i loves him dearly but idk sometimes i guess ppls dont wanna get over there feelings and if they do for alil bit they just push um aside and they wind up commin back out when they see da person hear etc idk thats what it is for me but im happy now
@SangsTurks (1447)
• India
25 May 11
There are actually a lot of things that come into picture, is your ex following you because now he cannot see you with anybody else? or does he actually loves you for what you are? What i believe in is be with someone who loves you and not who you love. Because, you can start to love somebody but if that person does not love you like you love him....it would not end well.
@cormiera (278)
• United States
26 May 11
well he actually does love me but i have been hurt by my ex they are exs for reasons but im also tryin to get outta that circle of guys and on to a next
@larish (2196)
• Philippines
25 May 11
If I were you I'll stick with the new guy. The relationship with him might blossom into something more exciting and inspiring. The ex should remain in the past. He won't be your ex if you have sooth relationship. If his the right guy for you, you won't have met the new guy. Let the ex found his new love while you nurture the new relationship. This is only my opinion. Hope this helps.
@cormiera (278)
• United States
26 May 11
yes it did and it wuz beautiful very pretty in fact
• United States
24 May 11
Have you told how you felt? Because then if he hears you say the words then maybe he will take you more seriously and stay away from you.
@cormiera (278)
• United States
26 May 11
yes and i told him that i had a man now and it wuz time for him to move on idk i always get guys that always wanna stay with me for like ever and they wanna marry me and just about everyone of um has wanted to marry me so they always clingy
@nezavisima (7419)
• Bulgaria
24 May 11
Oh this is a very confused situation.I think the most well know who and how much you love. Then when you are secure in their feelings towards the man just tell the other and so.You must make your choice and ancestors.Good luck. Have a nice day!
@cormiera (278)
• United States
26 May 11
yes very true and its a trust factor as well but it has nothin to do with my b/f insecurities he knew i wuz gonna stay but its just a fact that i couldnt get rid of my ex always callin txtin lol emails and my b/f wuz gettin mads lol