When people are too insensitive in terms of invitations.

@jennbart (1333)
Philippines
May 29, 2011 5:15am CST
My Brother had their daughter baptised yesterday. They didnt invite any friends anymore but only their bosses from work due to budget issues. Now,they invited a relative of ours who brought everybody including the nannies of their kids. I find it relly insensitive for people who bring nanies along when the invites are just family. The kids are big already,Iam sure the parents can handle their kids already. They are no longer toddlers who are helpless and still needs nannies with them.My nephew who is 6 no longer has his nanny.My nephew and their kid is of the same age. Really insensitive. They have been bringing nannies everytime their is an event of family gathering. Dont the wife know what " FAMILY" meant? When I get married, I will clearly state in my invites to be " Mr and Mrs" only. If I am asked if they can bring their nannies, I will tell them straight on. NO!
2 responses
@syoti20 (5296)
• Philippines
29 May 11
Well that the disease of Filippino. Taking someone with them as they are given authority to invite others. Its will be good to invite 1 person to take it with them but not the whole village este family and nannies! The wife was not insensitive but need to be educated.
@jennbart (1333)
• Philippines
30 May 11
That is one disease of the Filipinos that I hate! People should just bring those invited ONLY! they shouldnt be bringing even 1 person. Not at all! They are just guests not the immediate family! There was also an incident when my brother got married and they had a reservations for 4( with kids) only. The wife even had the gall to call up asking if they can bring the nannies along! My brother strictly declined.
@syoti20 (5296)
• Philippines
30 May 11
I hope you implement the rules no invitation no entry. hahaha Just like most American people do.
@allknowing (54663)
• India
29 May 11
There is nothing odd about merely inviting the parents and not the children. We had a wedding in our family and the reception was in a place where discipline was required. Children normally tend to misbehave and so a decision was taken not to invite children which automatically meant their nannies would be out to.