Who is your friend?

May 30, 2011 4:35am CST
Ever wondered how many friends you have and why you have? ever thought that you are being used by the person? Do you think that there is no real friend even though you are surrounded by many people? For most of the people the answer is yes. Our society has developed in such a way that we need others to fulfill our desire and hence we get committed to others in the name of friends which in real there isn't a true friendship. But by this I do not mean that there is no real friendship. There is a real friendship and to find you real friend only you can do it.
10 responses
• Philippines
30 May 11
I know who my real friends are. They're my Parents, Brothers, and my Grandparents. They'll never leave me even in my darkest hours. You're real friend will be your family. For a friend define as a person who is attached to another by feelings or affection or personal regards, thus it means Family. :)
30 May 11
What you have said is 100% true.
• Philippines
30 May 11
Thank you! :}
30 May 11
Ur welcome.
@ebuscat (5949)
• Philippines
30 May 11
For me a person who love Jehovah with all heart and soul.
30 May 11
Claps!!!!!!!!!!!
@umabharti (3976)
• India
30 May 11
True friendship is there and will be forever.Only sometimes truth is hidden for some specific reasons However when we knw the truth we can knw who is our friend and who is not. Its not that some one uses us just giving the name friend, it is that they can not hold it for a long time with the situations they have. Friends are forever.It depends on how we do the friendship.
30 May 11
Well true as You say Uma. But taking the probability we can see that there more decoy in the name of friends than real ones.
• Philippines
31 May 11
Yes, it is hard to find real friends. I have got some best friends before but right now, we are miles apart. Some of my best friends got married already and the others, I do not know. I just hope someday we will still meet each other. Sometimes we cannot totally rely on our friends as some friends can be a bad influence to us. Overall, friends are blessings. If I have problem, they are there to help me when I am in need of advice. Happy mylotting!
• China
31 May 11
I think although the society is more and more reality, many people for some reasons to be a friend to another person. but, there is an Chinese Idioms is to compare one's feeling with other's which means when you want to do something to another, you should thinking what you could do if such thing happens on you. then, put out some sincerity first, the rewards will surprise you. So, i think if you make friends sincerity, you will have many true friends, which happened on me really.
• United States
31 May 11
for me, the best indicator for a good friend is his/her willing to help me during hard times. we can always get many friends when we have resources like money, health, power, smartness, good career, etc. but only good friends who will stay with us when we do not have money, sick, powerless, feel stupid, and stumble in career.
@SIMPLYD (85189)
• Philippines
31 May 11
My real friend are the ones who can truly understand me. They can understand me whenever i give my frank comments. They can understand me when suddenly i just keep quiet. They can understand me, when i tell them what i find in them as annoying and vice versa, and would try to correct them too. I guess, when you are that, then you are my friend.
30 May 11
people would say friend so easily, but had no mean in what "true friend" is. friend at work, friend at neighborhood, friend for just met.. i have an experience at work. first i came in to the work. i find this two people. my senior are so charming with their cooperation. i call A and B, then B is quit from the job because B is moving to another city with B's family. the next three month i ask A about B like this," how about your "friend" now, any news?". the respond is surprise me, " what "friend", you're kidding me?". i feel so sorry for B. B sometime told me that B is wonderful working there n has a friend like A. they been through a lot for the company about 3 years. long enough to make friend...
• Philippines
30 May 11
Is there really such meaning of a word FRIEND? What are the kind of friends thus exist in this world. true friend, civil friend, for the sake friend and so many so-called friend. So hard to find a real friend on this earth. But i have a true and real friend and that is God. If you find God then you will know the real meaning of friend then.
@sjvg1976 (18401)
• Delhi, India
30 May 11
For me dfinition of friend still remains the same which we used to learn in schools"Afriend in need is a freind indeed". But if a think world has changed but still i am stucking on the same definition.Now a days you wont find any one rarely when the time comes. People usually run away when you ask them to help does hardly matter how close the person is.Today people find really themselves occupied so much that they hardly gets time to bother others. I think in today world freind like species has extinct like dinosour from this earth hardly you will find people whom you can sat freind.