I want a FRIEND - just a FRIEND who is TRUE

@jazel_juan (15767)
Philippines
May 31, 2011 4:49am CST
A rant. but for those who do not have patience for rants, just ignore this. But i feel so down today that i had to release this. or else i would go crazy again, or i am already crazy. I want a friend, that friend who will call me when she wants to not when she needs to. i want a friend who will patiently listen to me whine and vice versa, i can listen, just listen and not judge. swear. I am not bad, i guess, i can accept anyone but then how come nobody sticks? i mean i do have friends but i can see they are all busy with their lives..there is one, but i do understand her being busy and achieving her dreams ( hi, swirlz, i miss you! ) I need more like her. Can't i have one more friend like her? How i wish i have one more like her, one who will text even tho she is busy, even tho i have kids and would still hang out with me even if i have kids. Oh well, true friends are do hard to find. They are really scarce.
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6 responses
@vnrsudhan (1514)
• India
31 May 11
Hi there jazel_juan, Don't feel bad about it.True friends are like stars,there're always out there somewhere,you just have to search for and find them,.But there will be some limits to friendship.It's just human nature.But there're also friends who value their friends above themselves or their life.Everything that you seek is very possible,you just have to search for and find those true friends.Cheer up! Wanna be friends? :D Happy mylotting!
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
Yes i like what you said, true friends are like stars.. wanna be friends? of course
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@vnrsudhan (1514)
• India
1 Jun 11
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
accept my friend request, i have something to ask you privately! i need a translator
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• Philippines
31 May 11
I can be a true friend or more than a friend. You know me, I've been offering my heart for you here on myLot but you've been ignoring me.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
no front, so sorry if you felt like i was ignoring you..i was not
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
I was exaggerating but okay. Feel free to message me of whatever, I'd be glad to hear from you.
• Philippines
31 May 11
Looking for true friend is hard. In may experienced, I would like to advise you that it would be better that you should focus on her, you should understand her and try to make her happy always when she is sad. Focus also on her attitutes and actions. Attitudes are very important especially for one person. This will show how true or not she is to you. It is also a good thing to do to send her poems and templates, imaybe she will feel your passion and love for her as a true friend. Also being a true friend, she must also understand your feelings not only you can understand but also her. It would be better to have 2 to 3 true friends, like me, i have 3 true friend or bestfriends. They are there by side in times of loneliness and struggles in my life. I would repay for what they done, I would do the same thimg they did to me. One thing more is be more patient to your self and to others. Try to communicate to other people not only to one person or two.
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
yes i believe so..i do have many friends but because i have been busy with my family i did neglect to communicate iwth them..but i am finding ways to rebond and create that friendship again.
@tammy27 (1247)
• Philippines
31 May 11
maybe if you're stuck in a situation where you want someone but there's no one, perhaps that's the time when you should learn how to manage your emotions all on your own. find alternative ways to express them rather than whining about having no friends. perhaps it's time for you to be with yourself and no one else. we do need friends, good ones, those who will have time for us, those who will not judge us, but they will come in God's time. now if they're not here yet, then just accept the situation where you are. if you're in a dark room all alone with a messed up mind, accept it, and work with it. those friends are not only the absorber of your emotions, your online friends at mylot (i can be one...) are also here... :)
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@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
yes thats why i ranted it out here tammy because i knew you guys would listem ( so bad of me...) but thank you and you had the patience to read my whine glad to have online friends here in mylot
• Philippines
31 May 11
Hello Jazel, I think almost every body wants that but unfortunately, in reality people have limits to being a friend who will be there for you right at their side.NObody probably sticks because they have their own path to follow, that has happened to me, no one sticks and just go away, probably when i become a millionaire, that's when those so called friends are gonna come back anyways.true friends are hard to find because we are all different but it's really hard to be a friends "that you want them to be" for you. Have a nice day
@jazel_juan (15767)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
hahahaha then let's find ways to become billionaires Letran..Well right now i am glad i have very few friends rather than have many fake friends right?
@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
hi, actually seeking real friends is hard this days,its not easy to make friends and trust to them easily,so that those friends i still have and true to me i will treasured them so much what matter happen.