Surprised!Surprised!: ADD AS FRIEND

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Philippines
June 1, 2011 11:56am CST
Hello mylotters, It is really funny that some people will add and interact with you act as if you were good friends and suddenly because something happened they just going to delete you without any explanation. Maybe generation gap, cultural differences and many more can be the factors what the heck I want to laugh this is a childish and coward act well this is the way they want it can’t do anything about it just wish them luck and I hope they can find their true happiness Just don’t understand why they will add someone in the first place and delete them later. I never deleted someone on my list without informing them because I believe it will be disrespectful at least that person has the right to know why I need to delete them. This is not a rant, just trying to ventilate here -Be serious Bhabycatch013- happy mylotting
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12 responses
• United States
1 Jun 11
Someone started a nasty post about me and deleted me. I was fine with it because I was better without them as a friend. if you have a reason I don't feel they need to know it. I deleted a few people the other day. I did not see them around for a while so i don't think they should have been warned.
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@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
hello gab, you are right ....i am also tired of being good,and after being nice and good to "them" knowing they're stabbing us... it's sad thu,because we count them as real friends...but they don't deserved to be treated as real ones.
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
hi GAB, Yes in some situation it can be and it depends upon the person maybe because I am not like them or I need to get used to it thanks for the response happy mylotting
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
2 Jun 11
Done ventilating now? Want some vodka?
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
hello saphy, Oh dear where have you been? I missed you No one wants to have vodka with me Vodka or other drinks with you so CHEERS!
@saphrina (31740)
• South Africa
2 Jun 11
Here, have a big glass. Cheers.
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
waaaaaaaaaaa.....You are here yeah cheers
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
uhmn...i don't know who deleted me...and i don't care anyway. It is everyone's prerogative-and if they feel i don't deserve to be their friend-so be it. "you can dance,you can jive,having the time of your life ho woooo see that girl watch that sing..singing the dancing queen"
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
this is not a referral link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xFrGuyw1V8s anybody could be that guy...night is young and the music's high
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
hi jaiho, You know me I hate people who treat me like that because I believe I deserve better but it was their choice not mine besides I can still be me with or without them I don't give a darn care "HYPOCRITES" Let's groove tonight
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
aha...we still need to wait till Sunday night right? then we will rock the floor? hmn....have you had reservation already?
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
Hello my friend bhaby, Its very bad situation and bad character. Who deleted your name and how did you know that your name in the list then later deleted, tell me.. LOL.. Anyway if it happened to me i don't care, he/she is not deserve as my friend, there are so many friends here like you whihc never delete any name...
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
hello visavis, Well their name are ??????????????? I live my life without them I will be fine thanks for the response happy mylotting
@visavis (5945)
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
sorry for a bit delay response... I'm so busy in couple of days... so if your name deleted by somebody in their list let it be, you don;t need them, but the sad thing if you best friend deleted your name - some thing messy around..
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
hi bhabycatch013-well it is really depends if someone deleted me as their friend list i don't care if they don't like me then i don't like them too ..lol thats life i think...:)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
hi scorpio, I am like that also if you don't like me the chances are I don't like them too but my point is why they need to send friend request in the first place? thanks for the response happy mylotting
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
maybe their crazy...lol ..they don't have something to do...haissssssssst...
@cream97 (29169)
• United States
4 Jun 11
Hi. bhabycatch013. I also don't like when someone will delete me from off of their friends list without telling me that they are going to. Especially when I know that I have not done anything wrong or offensive to them. I would not know who has deleted me on myLot, because I don't go back and check to see if I am still friends with such and such. I have deleted a few people in the past because they were really mean and nasty to me. I did not bother telling them, because I am sure that they did not want to be my friend at all anyway. I believe that if you have not done anything wrong to someone they should at least inform you of why they are deleting you. But if course, they won't do so because they have too much of pride and they are ashamed to tell you that they have deleted you too.
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
hello cream, That is so pride and being ashamed with themselves because they deleted innocent one Well that is their happiness so be it Nice to see you here happy mylotting
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
2 Jun 11
Some friends are taking matters too personal when one is supposed to have a more open and matured approach towards any topic of discussion. I have had the same experience of being deleted by a friend and this friend made it clear that she deleted me because she felt she had been implicated in my discussion which I think was not the case. Anyway, I accepted the deletion with open mind.
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
hello zandi, Having a reasonable reason is acceptable but my experienced was no explanation at all. thanks for the response happy mylotting
@Devilova (5396)
• Indonesia
2 Jun 11
Most men will add me if they see my profile, and I bet most of them will remove me if I change my profile with an ordinary one.
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
hi devilova, Really? I think you are sweet loving girl really thanks for the response happy mylotting
@shibham (17025)
• India
2 Jun 11
Hi bhaby.. There are some person in the world who are not ready to be attached with the same thing, thats why they delete, again... they cant judge their mind and does not what they actually need. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
hi shiby, If they are confused then they must not add me at the first place. hope you feel better now thanks for the response happy mylotting
@whengcat (1458)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
Know what? this happened to me on facebook. A batchmate of mine from my grade school days added me as friend and I accepted her. We we're friends for a while and then she met my brother-in-law on facebook too. I can see from their posts that they really have something going on and I get along since I know they are in the same boat(rocky relationship with their respective partners). But when my brother-in-law went away to go on the same country as where she is staying, I found out that she unfriended me. I felt used or something and I hate her for doing that to me, she's such a hypocrite!
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
hello whengcat, What?really?She simply used you sorry to know it I agree with you she is Hypocrite thanks for the response happy mylotting
@naija4real (1293)
2 Jun 11
I have had similar experience in the past. But I just ignore this situation and just go ahead with making new friends. It is normal for people to loose friend and make new friends.
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
hello naija4real, Yes!Maybe I will get used to it thanks for the response happy mylotting
• India
1 Jun 11
well, i feel the same way. But i think everybody isnt the same when many dont care about others, their feelings in the real world, we can never expect them in here i cant believe people do that here too.. its a site entirely for making money.. not facebook anyway i have sent u my friend request:-)
• Philippines
2 Jun 11
hello thankucomeagain, Yes that is true by the way I am not just referring mylot but other sites too.... I don't add friends right now for some reasons I hope you do understand Welcome To Mylot thanks for the response