Ceased to share with me?

Bulgaria
June 3, 2011 5:47pm CST
Hi folks I want advice from you.My husband talked to a few days ago I shared everything with. and suddenly came at night from work to know that is tired but we do not even fall asleep during the talk.Suddenly no longer shared with me a few days ago I found out about some stuff from our friend. To know what to do about how to proceed.
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8 responses
• United States
3 Jun 11
There is not much to go on here. I guess you could ask your husband about what the friend said to you. Just don't go repeating your friends name if it was bad stuff.
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• Bulgaria
4 Jun 11
Yes I did not say I know what I told his friend, but realized it was true.Nothing bad just realized he did not want to share with me. I wonder why.I felt quite strange. Apparently not supposed to know. Thanks for the reply and nice day!
@mythociate (15189)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
4 Jun 11
Trust him to share with you what you need to know and -to keep 'what would only trouble you' to himself. Simply ask how you can help him get through his troubles ... maybe suggest he tell you his problems so that you can ask us for advice!
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• Bulgaria
4 Jun 11
Yes it is! Obviously need a little more to talk to him. I can see him trying something but I do not know how to approach obviously have to wait a bit.Have a nice day!
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
Well, you need to talk to your husband about it. It is your obligation to know what is going on? Ask him if there is any problem. So that you can avoid any misunderstand about the matter that you are worrying about?
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• Bulgaria
4 Jun 11
Yeah right friend it should have sounded.But I want himself to tell me if any problem has always made ??it.I want everything to be as before but apparently have to wait and decide how to begin this conversation. Because trust is something that is very important for a family.Thanks for the reply and nice day!
@aerous (13474)
• Philippines
5 Jun 11
You right, friend. That is the best things to do. Because if you don't ask about it. That particular actions will be aggravated someday. Take the action now, before it's too late...
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• Bulgaria
5 Jun 11
Yes it is! As earlier the better.Because communication is very important for a family. A conversation does not result could worsen our relations and make us unhappy. Therefore we must be careful to start the conversation from afar and to locate the man next to us let us recognize it.Thanks for the reply and nice day!
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
3 Jun 11
So what exactly did you find out from your friend?
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• Bulgaria
4 Jun 11
I learned an news.The news is personal but not a bad thing.just very hurt that I do not know these things and others know them, however, are one family. Have a nice day!
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
I see, so your husband opened up to a friend instead of sharing it with you? . I'd be hurt as well. But maybe he was just really busy that day that's why he was not able to tell you. Have you tried asking your husband about it?
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• Bulgaria
4 Jun 11
Yes I've asked myself.But apparently it is decided.However, there is a right to privacy but you have to consider that I know and let me hurt. Thanks for the reply.
@cream97 (29169)
• United States
4 Jun 11
Hi. nezavisima. I think that your husband should share anything with you that he will share with his own friend. If he is talking to your friend behind your back, he can tell you too.
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• Bulgaria
4 Jun 11
Apparently not. But the problem is not that he may share ssa his friend but at least say to me. Because sometimes you may find yourself not harvested in a vineyard. You may feel defeated. However, apparently all have influence. I wish i itoy to share everything whatever is the problem. For a family should share everything. We will still wait and see where things will evolve. Thanks for the reply and nice day!
@stylewaves (1063)
• India
4 Jun 11
As far as i have experienced in mylife , there are two ways of solving a problem , just openly ask what is the thing to your husband or else keep your mouth shut:) may be that will not bring any problems with you and your husband
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• Bulgaria
4 Jun 11
Thanks so much for the advice.apparently so. or need to ask directly, or just remain silent like I know nothing. Should solve the problem is not that serious but here are soil problems. I think you're making it much better to remain silent. Have a nice day!
@amyson (3509)
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
your may be right he is tired and only need enough space or time to get his mind calms. if he did not open up to you whatever problems boggling in his mind. you need to find a perfect time where he feel relax and you could notice it in his behavior. now time to ask him what the things bothering him and tell him as being his wife. he should trust you and never get shy to tell his problems whatever worrying him.i hope you could have a nice chat and he could release his tension and two of you work each other to solve his problem.
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• Bulgaria
4 Jun 11
Yes obviously must give him time he apparently did have a little rest.A little relaxation and a conversation just the two of us and things might work out OK.Thanks for the tips and nice day!
• United States
4 Jun 11
Sort of hard to advice as not sure what the information was if bad or good, but at any rate you should take a moment, and not while in bed but prior to bedtime to discuss with your husband as to what is lacking in terms of communication. Discuss what was told to you but then hard to say, surely speak to him in a calm demeanor as to what is needed in terms of discussing.
• Bulgaria
4 Jun 11
To clear his time has told me things.obviously have to sit down and de talk seriously.However, he must be a reason.I hope to begin to share with me.Have a nice day!