friend or a lover

@ravich (243)
India
June 4, 2011 5:45am CST
hi friends many of us who have a friend and also a loved person (both different ones)and a situation to select one . whom are you going to select ? is that right to select a friend or a loved one.....or whom do you try to convince ? how will you convince? did you face this situation any time? if yes how did you try to manage?
3 responses
• Philippines
4 Jun 11
It's not how you weigh the love on those person. Whenever I'm on that situation I'm always weighing who is righteous. You've got to know who is right and who is wrong. Try to talk to both of them at different time.
@ravich (243)
• India
5 Jun 11
hi friend ok ....a small puzzle regarding this.answer your best. if a situation as both your loved ones and a friend are in a problem both in each of your hands and the thing is you have a chance of saving only one of them and whom are you going to save........assure that you are having chance for saving only one. here there is no chance of talking .no time to decide whom to.here its your heart to decide some thing .....time for your heart full decision.
@thatgirl13 (7307)
• South Korea
4 Jun 11
I wouldn't choose either of it but try to keep both separately. Friendship is needed but Love is needed as well. There's always a problem if both of them are kept together. I've faced it a lot of times so I just decided to keep them seperate. It does help.
@ravisivan (14051)
• India
4 Jun 11
This is life. You have put it as lover and friend. In life mostly it will be choice between two relatives or friends etc. Somehow u have to convince urself, decide and proceed. Indecisiveness is a disease. That should be overcome. Even for this I could have been thinking for say 30- mins and then post. Instead I am answering immediately. I am convinced of my stand and that is what is required for progress in life. have a good day