My father believes any lies that he hears about me and my husband.

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My father is so dirty! I love him but he really should act more like a father than a gossiper. My sister told me last Monday how my father heard from our half-sister a lie that was about me and my husband. He said that, my half-sister told him that this guy told her, that my husband said that he smokes crack cocaine. He then told my half-sister that my husband told him that his wife, which is me, smokes it too. WTF? I know that this is a sound proof lie because my husband does not even smoke nor does he drink at all. I don't either! I will admit that me and him will drink a wine cooler every blue moon and this is only in the privacy of our own home. We never get drunk, or high either! Me and my husband don't do drugs at all. So, my father knows that I don't mess with this stuff. He told me and my sister to never mess with drugs or get a credit card, and honestly, I have honored his command. I don't do drugs because that is not the lifestyle that I live. I have never done smoked before either. Now here comes the second lie that my father heard about me. He told my sister that someone told him that I said that he was not my father. My father said that I said that some other man is my father instead. My sister told me this. I told my sister that I have never said anything like this at all. Even if my father never acted like a father to me and her, I still would not go out and say this about him. If someone would come up to me and ask me about my father. I would tell them that he is alive and living. I would not down talk him down in a harsh way. I don't understand why is my father believing anything and everything that someone tells him that is about me or my husband. Me and sister believe that our father is the one that is probably making up these lies about me and my husband, because he is mad, just because I don't come around or contact him. How can I, when he is basically a gossiper that is trying to cause trouble amongst me and my husband?