My husband changed

@indahfth (11161)
Indonesia
June 6, 2011 3:53am CST
Currently, I am not looking, angry face of my husband again. Since his father was sick, my husband became very quiet, and looked sad. I did not expect, my husband is a bad-tempered, has suddenly become fragile.
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13 responses
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
9 Jun 11
Maybe because hes just so worried with his father and maybe he has so much in mind right now because of what happened to his dad. This is the right time that you show your love to him, hug him sometimes, kiss him sometime, tell him i love you, even if he doesn't response to what you did, talk to him about anything that are positive, like happy moments together, or anything happened for the day that were good and positive, it's okey if he doesn't response to it, just do it, in that way you show him that you love him and cares for him, and that whatever happens you are just right there for him.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
10 Jun 11
actually, I'm happy with my husband change this, because I do not need to see my husband's angry face. I am glad my husband did not get angry. hopefully, ill-tempered character my husband, became lost because of this problem.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
yeah hope so. so that you can have peace in your family life. and your son will feel the love of his father.
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
indahfth hi, tell me, is it good or bad for you? ann
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
7 Jun 11
I am glad my husband did not get angry anymore, but I also do not want to see my husband sad.
@shibham (16977)
• India
6 Jun 11
Hi friend.. Be patient. Everyone will be right once your FIL becomes cure and fine. As a son he is suffering a lot from his father's sickness..... dont mind, everything will turn fine. Just wait.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
Yes. I really hope everything will be fine
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Maybe he is thinking about his father's health and I just hope he changed for good.As you have said most of the time he is angry,now that he is so quiet maybe it's your turn to console him and give assurance that all will be alright. Prove to him as his wife that you cared for him and you are always beside him in case he needs help.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
Whatever happens, I am always beside my husband.
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
I think while you're giving us a picture of your husband through those descriptions here, I felt I shared same character. I am ill-tempered too yet fragile. I think you have to acknowledge that everyone has its soft side. Even how ill-tempered a person is a magical punch can change it. Give him the best that you can be as wife and his everything.It's time to give your shoulder to him and forget if he caused you pain. I think it's part of being wife.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
Yes. You are right. And I certainly would give attention to my husband, even though my husband, often hurt me.
@syoti20 (5293)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Indafth, not all who look tough outside also considered to be tough on the inside. I can witness that to my big brother. He is a really bad tempered and easy to be irritate. But deep in side to his angry/snobbish looks. When you please or want something and you dearly needed it. He will find way to get that for you.
• Nigeria
6 Jun 11
It is better to be happy but when he is sad u should also understand
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@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
7 Jun 11
He needs your support and your prayers.
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@celticeagle (158970)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Jun 11
He was probably sad, nervous, tired, upset, scared and all of these would cause him to act differently than usual. It is sad that your husband's dad is sick and your husband probably cares very much about him. Fragile though? That seems really different from the norm for him.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
You need to understand him he is undergoing a period of being worried about his father illness. he would be back to his self when he pass all those things which worried him. all you need to do is to support him during this hard times. you need to help him and pray for the recovery of his father. hope is well now.
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@jak2010 (1550)
• Papua New Guinea
7 Jun 11
Good, this is the time you need to bring your husband back, You can always stand alone his side during his trying times and win his love heart and him back into the house.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
hi, sometimes being that kind there are many factors why a person need to change or will change because of what it surrounds and happening to the life of a one person.there's a time that we can not control it but we can lessen it.
@isloooboy (1733)
• United Arab Emirates
6 Jun 11
Well now what you want ? the same old one? well I must say you thank to Almighty Allah who turned him into caring person. Try to help him in this difficult situation and make him believe that you are caring him as well. you can Ignore my advice by saying "I am too little to advice" am I?
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
I do not know what I want. I'm happy, my husband was gentle, and not angry. But I also do not want, to see my husband sad.
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
that is a good thing you should be thankful for...i guess he finally realized life is too short to be angry all the time...
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
6 Jun 11
Hopefully, my husband noticed it. And do not come back, be people who like mad again.