How to agree a girl for love!!!!!
By sua006
@sua006 (160)
June 6, 2011 9:52pm CST
I love a girl who is my friend, but i can express my feelings because i affraid that if he rejects then our friendship break.
What to do???
6 responses
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
Hi there Sua 006!
I guess the best thing to do is to determine how serious you are with your emotions for your friend. If you feel like you really love her and would never want to see her get hurt, if you believe that what you feel is real and that you're ready to face the consequences and would be willing to make sacrifices to make the relationship work, then it's definitely worth a try. If you're not sure, I'd say just give it enough time for you to realize if you would like her to just be a friend or if you would really like her to be your girlfriend. When you give it a try, just never expect. Hope for the best but prepare yourself for the worst.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
10 Jul 11
Thank you very much for choosing my post as the best response. I'm very sorry for not being able to respond to your question right away. I've been very busy.
Anyway, if you are sure about your sincerity, I would say go for it, definitely. It's better to be sorry than to regret not even trying. Who knows, she might feel the same way about you, too.
@denikurniadi (317)
• Indonesia
7 Jun 11
Hi friend
I think you should tell your feeling to her. don't affraid if she reject you. I am sure it's the best.
@rhannealmoite (338)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
If you feel like your friend will leave you if you tell her how you feel,and you are afraid of losing her, I think it's better to keep it yourself.
But for me you'll never know the outcome if you never try.
If she is a real friend to you she'll never end your friendship after knowing your feelings.
Try to analyse your current situation and wait for positive signs. Make a move on her slowly but surely. I think that's the best way.
Have a great day and Good Luck!
@david2000 (97)
• Singapore
7 Jun 11
This is the problem with most relationships. They cannot move on from the friendship status to the in a relationship status. I think if u treat a girl like a friend, you won't progress. If you want a relationship, tell the girl openly, its the easiest and shortest way. What I would do if I am you is that I would hint her, if she shows positive sign, I would progress, and if everything goes well, tell her how you feel.
If you are scared, and you don't try, you will never know the results. I have a friend who loves saying "Every accomplishments starts with the decision to try". And this is the case in life.
In wish you good luck and all the best
@sua006 (160)
•
7 Jun 11
Yeah i want the relation, i mean i want her to be my girlfriend.
But i am scared that i don't want lose her.
But i have decided that i should tell her openly, that i fell in love with her.
And am 75% sure that she will accept my proposal but the rest 25% scaring me.
But i have to try if don't then someone else can propose her and maybe she go with him....
So, I am going to try.
Thanks for your suggestion.
I will inform you about her reply.
Thanks for wishing me.
@xyzm12 (26)
• United States
7 Jun 11
75% is pretty good, if I felt I had a chance like that I think I would go for it. Sometimes in life you have to take a risk in order to gain something more. In your case you take the risk of losing her friendship in the hope for a relationship with this girl. Good luck and please tell us how it goes.
