I somtimes feel like my in-laws can't accept the fact their son is married.

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I just get this feeling sometimes, because I feel like my mother and father-in-law, just can't accept the fact that their son is married. He is the youngest child of theirs. Me and my husband have been married for nine years now. In the past, I have lived with my in-laws for five years. When my husband and I lived with them, we hardly could have any privacy. I remember once when I was scratching my husband's scalp with a comb, my mother-in-law opened up our bedroom door without knocking. The door was unlocked and she did not even bother to knock before she came inside of our room. So, from now on, I always made sure that I lock the bedroom door. We have lived with one them for four months in 2009 and this was the last time that we have ever stayed with them too. Now, we have been on our own for almost two years, and I just get this feeling that my in-laws would really prefer that we move back in the house with them. It took my mother-in-law a long time to accept the fact that her youngest son was grown and that he was in love. I just feel this way because when we used to live with them, my father-in-law was very lazy about doing anything for his wife. My husband would be doing just about everything for her himself. My husband would take her to the store, take her to get her hair done, take her shopping, take her to pay bills, take her to get something to eat, and also to return something that she has bought from the store. My husband would clean up the kitchen and backroom. My father-in-law was keeping the backroom so messy and my husband would be the only one that used to keep it nice and clean. It stays this way for a while, then a couple of months later this room is messy right back again. My father-in-law was not a sick man at all. He was capable of taking his wife anywhere that she needed to go. He would just stay gone all day long. Sometimes she could not get into contact with him because he never answered his cell phone of she just did not know where he would be at at the time. It was just awful. My father-in-law figured that since his son was living in his house, it was his duty to take his mom anywhere that she needed to go while my father-in-law just worked all day long, or just be stayed gone to wherever that it is that he was. Make no mistake, I am not the type of daughter-in-law that does not want my husband to do for his parents. I am just somewhat fed up because my father-in-law was too lazy and uncaring to take his wife wherever she may need to go. He depended on his son to do everything like as if his son was the one that was married to his mother and not him. My father-in-law and mother-in-law both became too clingy on my husband and this spoiled the crap out of both of them too.