Lonely for being single

Philippines
June 12, 2011 3:47pm CST
That's how i feel right now. It's really hard to wake up in the morning without any inspiration at all.Even though i do things that i wanna do just to won't make me feel bored or lonely still i can feel the sadness of being alone.I know my friends, family specially god, they're always there for me but i want to say is someone i can really call mine or partner in life. My life is getting boring unlike when you have someone special in your life,you always wake up early in the morning just to see that person.Even if that person didn't do anything just to be with him /her makes your day complete.That's the only thing that i dont have a serious "partner in life".I'm still waiting for the right man.Everbody says im too young and i gonna meet a lot of people and all i need to do is just wait,wait and wait for the right time.I have suitors but they're not my type and when i like someone they're taken.I always fall for someone who's already taken :( so sad! I'm tired of waiting. How do you handle that situation? when you feel tired of being alone? and you always fall for someone who's already taken?:(
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14 responses
@celticeagle (120398)
• Boise, Idaho
12 Jun 11
Sometimes when you get to this point you are so intense that you miss out on possibilities. If you reach out you might find someone. Take a community course in something you are interested in or find a favorite coffee shop to frequent. If you have a certain schedule-change it! The places you go aren't turning up anyone of interest so change the places you go.
@celticeagle (120398)
• Boise, Idaho
13 Jun 11
COugars what to be told they are wonderful and flirted with. You should practice a flirty look or something. They can't do anything to you except turn you down. Say something nice to them. Make a nice comment. Say something funny.
• Netherlands
23 Jun 11
This is a thing that me an probably thousands of other people's got on their mind.. I just keep thinking, She will come one day! And I also crush on most girls that doesn't does it back. But There are walking to many people on the earth to give it up! Just let time do his job and be much with friends that get my feeling away!
• Bangladesh
17 Jun 11
I think you are feeling very depressed about your problem. You said you are very young so there lots of possibility in your life,many things can happen in future. JUST ENJOY THE LIFE.
@riukaoni (17)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Hey you know we have the same situation, and based from my experience right now I'm happy for being single. I was 13y/o when I have my first partner(boyfriend) and I know I was too young to have one and the cause is my curiosity, but that time it didn't last for a month. After that break up and the next school year comes I have another partner, I must say that I think every school year I have different partner and neither of them lasted for a year. And every time I fall in love, that guy either had a partner or someone he likes and that really hurts. Until I turned 19 I decided to settle my life being single and since then I'm so happy right now and I'm already 23. I may confess that sometimes I wish to have a partner in life but having friends, family by your side you'll sometimes never feel lonely and do the things that enjoys you more will help you overcome the feeling of loneliness. If you believe that the right guy will come then do it because it's better to wait than never right? :)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
well why are lonely being single, any way how old are you???why don't you enjoyed being single and not being bored, unless you are single enjoyed you're life because when the times you would get married you cannot go out just to make party or go with your friend at night, my dear being single was an opportunities to enjoy because married life was different. For my owned experienced i rather being single than to get married, because you know my life when i was single was really enjoying rather than when i got married, i felt boring when i got married, because most of the time my husband so busy with his work, so we seldom to go out with the date,that's why i missed my friends when i was single we usually go out....so while you are single explore your life, enjoyed many things, if you're looking for any inspirations then find one, or go out with friends, maybe you have friends, don't let your self hide in your room... You said that you fall to somebody which was taken already , well there are lot of man outside which was single you know, don't find anyone which was taken because it would give you a lot of headache and problem.... i guess wait for the right person do not on a hurry because there was song that says "can't hurry love",maybe while you are GOD was preparing for the right person to you, maybe it was the best guy, or just pray for the right person that GOD would given to you...Goodluck i hope you can wait for that person...
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
Don't be sad and lonely. Make yourself busy and occupied with other things not to keep you bored and thinks sad being alone. There are many ways to fight the loneliness. Go out with friends and do something productive. Staying here in mylot will also helps you get out from that loneliness. Love will come at the right time...and will come when you least expected. have a a great day
@gerald_lian (2193)
• Australia
13 Jun 11
You know what, I feel exactly the same as you do right now and it has been a while since I wanted to start a discussion like this, but just haven't got to it...... Probably the only difference between our situations is that you're a girl and I'm a boy. Throughout the course of my life I have fell for a handful of girls, and all of those either turned me down or were already in a relationship with someone else. Why oh why is it so hard to find the "right one"?! My family members are indirectly pressuring me to find a girlfriend as soon as possible, and I can see they are becoming increasingly worried for me since my age is definitely catching up with me. I honestly feel exceptionally lonely when I see young couples hang around in my town while I have no partner to hang out with. And worse of all, now that I am living in a foreign country, finding a girlfriend is much more difficult because most girls are local and it would be hard to find a local girl who accepts the differences between us (culture, beliefs etc.). Hmm, maybe I'm destined to be single for the rest of my life?
@SIMPLYD (84425)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
Don't be in such a hurry to have a partner in life. It will come when you least expect it. But be sure that the person is not yet taken, because if he/she is then it will be a problem later on and it's not pleasing in God's eye and to other people too. Pray that you will finally meet your partner in life. And pray that you will not succumb to those taken persons.
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
First of all, welcome to myLot. Being single is not the reason to be lonely. You were able to live without a bf from the beginning right, so I think you can make it. You are still so young and I think you can find someone who is really deserving for you. Waiting patiently is better than being in a rush. Others are very rush in getting into a relationship and yet they ended up in breakups or worse if divorce or annulment. Just enjoy life and stay happy. I am sure you will find your true love in the long run. Inspiration is not only applicable for having someone in life but also applicable in many ways. If you are fond of helping others, then that can make your day inspired. For me, when I am able to help poor people especially those who are living in the streets, my day gets inspired because I was able to help even in my most simple ways. Take care and GOD bless!
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
i could relate to you and also experience it in the past. so lot of nagging comments i do receive from friends. it drives me to think that i feel so miserable. imagine seeing people with a partner in a party and i have no companion. i also feel depress so i use not to attend any more parties. so whenever i meet friends or relatives they also ask the same questions. it get bored replying the same reason i had not found yet the man. but hod is good and now i have my partner and so happy. when it is your time he would just come to you everyone have their own destination some wait and some seek what ever way you choose then select wisely.
• United States
13 Jun 11
I don't think you should want a relationship so much. Why want to be in such a serious relationship when you could be doing things now you won't be able to do when you are in that serious relationship? If you really want to be with someone, I suggest something like eharmony. They'll set you up with someone who is compatible and not taken.
@simplycza (1480)
• Philippines
13 Jun 11
Do not focus on being alone, sad, no boyfriend, can't be with someone, etc. Try to enjoy life at the moment by changing your activities and meet new friends. You said, you are too young, i suggest just wait for the right time where God brings you the man of your life. or better yet, pray and ask the Lord to cure your sadness for now.
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
12 Jun 11
You are speaking my feeling at the moment, and I would definitely agree with you. When you like someone, that particular person may not like you back. When you knew someone really has a fond of you, but you may not fall for that person. Life just full of dilemma, and you can't see the pattern of it. So, is waiting the only solution to all? Good luck!
• Philippines
12 Jun 11
I started a discussion just recently about my life being alone. You know living alone is challenging and the freedom is just wonderful. So far in my life, i am happy, content, i can do this with my freedom, don't you love that? There are things you can do when you are alone. Don't seek for partners, you will soon find it when u least expect it. Be happy!