Do you feel this way?WHEN YOU'RE SINGLE....

Philippines
June 15, 2011 10:32pm CST
Do you feel this way? When you're single all you see are happy COUPLES.. When you're committed all you see are happy SINGLES...
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@pals101 (2011)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Yup, that's true.. but in life we have to make a choice. And the choices are ours.. To stay single and be happy or to be committed and still be a happy. It clearly depends on our choice and how we spend it. -pals-
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• Indonesia
16 Jun 11
That's true, I do feel that way in that situation.Sometime I can call it "confusing" because we never be enough thankfull for each of our situation.I just think that "why I can't enjoy every single moment of mine" without compare it to others.
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• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Your post made me laugh. I remember when I was still in a relationship, almost all of my friends were single. They would always go out and have fun without me. Since I had a boyfriend, they rarely get to see me. I was always envious of them whenever they tell me that they will go out. Of course I couldn't always be with them as I needed to spend time with my boyfriend as much as possible. But when I became single, most of them entered a relationship. I became so lonely at times that it was almost as if I had no friend to go out with. Well thankfully I became close with my work mates that they became my club buddies, travel buddies etc. ;)
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• Philippines
16 Jun 11
I do feel that way before. But now I am content with what i am today.
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• United States
16 Jun 11
I feel that way sometimes. It really bothers me to see happy couples when I don't have anyone to be happy with. but when I'm in a relationship and I see single people, I'm not like "Ohhh lucky single person." That defeats the point of the relationship.
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• Philippines
16 Jun 11
I don't feel that way right now. I don't know why.......maybe because I am committed right now and i am so satisfied and happy with what I have...I think single people that see happy couples wanted also to have a relationship just like what they saw... and vice versa with couple who are seeing happy single persons... I think those couple are not that happy and satisfied with what they have.. that's what I think.
@alquizar (480)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Hi nurseclare!I think it's normal for us human to feel that way.I knew a lot of people are like that and I am one of those who experienced that kind of feeling.But it was just before.I am happy and contented in my life right now,though I had so many plans in my life I am trying to achieve it one at a time.I love all your discussion and you are so witty in making one..keep it up nurseclare!!.I am looking forward to respond on your interesting discussion and for sure all of our lotters are excited too...
@Amanda81587 (3046)
• United States
16 Jun 11
I know how it feels in both directions. When I am single I may appear to be happy by I long for that happiness and thAt feeling of having someone to hold at night. A lot of those happy singles only appear that away. Do not get me wrong there maybe happy singlesbut I know I wasn't. Being in a relationship is not easy and it has it's rough times, but when you two work things out which shows that much more effert put into the relationship building it stronger.