Does your boyfriend/girlriend notice you when you check out other guy/gal?
@fantasticbabe (981)
Philippines
June 16, 2011 11:34am CST
In a relationship most men and women find it annoying when they see their partner glance or looking on the other people especially when they are attracted to something and it maybe a certain pretty girls or handsome guy. how do you react when your boyfriend or girlfriend do it during your date. Do you notice them and scold them or you just let it pass since it does not worry you or you let them do the sneak a peak.
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@flower21 (765)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
of course he find me i am looking to other direction while we talk. so he notice it and just say to him i just wonder who is that guy. i reason out i think his face look familiar or just something in him caught my attention. sometimes it become rude when he talk and dos not reply immediately. so he get annoy while i apologize and also commit the same blunder.
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@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
well, your techniques s just a mere escape so your guy would not get jealous. just to be safe some guy dislike it while in other guy they are acceptable a s friendly remarks. any guy who get angry in little things to do is a very insecure not only to you but also to other people surrounding you. if he s very negative in his thinking and behavior. likely he would find trouble having a steady partner.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
Even I like to, still have no bf at the moment only friends at the moment. It been a long long time so probably if ever i has bf still won;t mind. I am not really particular in looking at people even i has interest to them i would glance simply as if looking somewhere else where they would not notice me. But the truth i just admire them and not really the expressive types and tend to control myself so most of the time they would not notice me and i am also the same things i do not just stare longer it makes feel embarrass.
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@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
same with me i do look at them for a short while not because i like then but just like to observe other people manner. sometimes i really find humor in how people act, walk and the manner of there dressing. there are many who are fashion conscious, the simple and those who have nasty fashion style. well, think they are annoying but at the same time my eyes get entertain by just looking at them.
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
17 Jun 11
I don't think my husband really looks at other women. He mostly looks at people's cars, I think.
At any rate, I don't think it would bother me. The world is filled with other people, and looking at them can't hurt. (Although obviously people should be polite and avoid staring).
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
yes, too much staring is very annoying that you get to a feeling that you been being stalk. sometimes t could have other interpretation like if this guy appreciate or you find something weird with your appearance. so it also feel somehow you lose a litle bt privacy. those staring too long could be bad after all you lose your attebton to whoever someone beside you that they get so annoy.
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
well, he care less and me the same thing to him. i get used to him looking on another direction while we talk with each other, but it usually last for a short seconds and i see that as only normal.i also act and do the same things and h is not mad at me. except if i stared too much to handsome guy he might get jealous but he is not th insecure type of guy so nothing to worry.
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@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
yes, that true it only mean your boy just appreciate the beauty surround her to become a different scenario when he would left you to have conversation with other girl and you become a spectator. that kind of situation would surely make you mad. so i think the guy and gal should learn to give and take and never feel jealous when they both have a trust with each other.
@for3verfamous (2190)
• Canada
16 Jun 11
Me and my boyfriend know eachother so well, and we are honest with eachother, so yes we do notice. He probably knows I'm going to check out the guy before I even do it, because he knows what kind of guys I'm attracted too. 
He knows if I'm looking at a guy because he's good looking.
I can tell if he's checking out a girl, if I can't I can just ask.. And he will say she looks nice or something. At the end of the day it doesn't matter, because we are with eachother and I'm more attrracted to him anyway.
He knows if I'm looking at a guy because he's good looking.
I can tell if he's checking out a girl, if I can't I can just ask.. And he will say she looks nice or something. At the end of the day it doesn't matter, because we are with eachother and I'm more attrracted to him anyway. 1 person likes this
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
that very nice of you both as you did not take in mind to feel jealous or a little insecure since you both admire beauty. there is nothing wrong to admire other people because of their external beauty but the most important things that matter is the inner beauty. though, most of us human see first what the outside view as it is more visible.
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@mskauchi (36)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
As to my case, when I see my boyfriend glance at a sexy girl. I would ask him "Is she sexy?" And he would then deny of glancing the girl. I just check on him of what he thinks of the girl on why he glanced at her. Sometimes, I would also glance at the girl and compliment the girl if she's really that beautiful. I would be with him on that. Not a big deal for me, because sometimes, we girls do that and we admire and it doesn't mean that we lessen our love for our boyfriend. It's normal to admire people. I think so. ;-)
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
yes many guy have such reason so the girl would not get irritated and such an alibi they could get a good escape. those two eyes are really tempt to see beauty and when caught they would just reasons they are just appreciate the beauty or admire and they see nothing wrong with it.and girls also do the same thing and good for you are not a jealous type since girls have little patience and it could be the cause of some arguments.
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