If you could change one thing about your personality what would it be?

United States
June 19, 2011 5:47pm CST
I tend to be very open minded when it comes to other people but at the same time I can be shy and with drawn.I need to be more free when it comes to my self.So what is one thing you would change about your personality?
8 responses
• United States
19 Jun 11
I wish I could be louder, because I think I was born to have a very loud, outgoing personality, but a lot of things in my childhood caused me to be insecure and afraid to socialize. I am slowly overcoming this problem and my true personality is starting to come out.
• United States
20 Jun 11
I wish I could be more social. I used to be when I was younger, but something change. I'm afraid people will judge me because of how I'm different or how I act.
@floridia (296)
• Algeria
21 Jun 11
If you could change one thing about my personality, i would change my laziness. Because this bad quality made my life harder and also made me rely on other for my life things.
@sswallace21 (1824)
• United States
20 Jun 11
Welcome! I'm a perfectionist. It's a good thing and a bad thing. This personality trait has gotten me into trouble more than once. No one's harder on me then me. I hold myself to very high standards. This is a good thing most would think. However, I expect the same standard from others. As you probably know, we all do things at a different level of expertise. Not a good thing in my book. People with mediocre standards drive me crazy. I need to learn to expect a little less from myself and others. Best Wishes!
@whatrow (792)
• United States
20 Jun 11
I suffer from severe, chronic withdrawl which causes me to destroy every chance I have at being sucessful at anything. This is the one thing I would like to change.
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
Hi whispers168! if there's one thing that I want to change with regards to my personality that's probably my lack of self confidence because I'm the type of person who prefer not to be notice at all because I'm so afraid to commit mistakes so I always try to hide.
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
The thing that I want to change about my personality is being too kind.Sometimes people just abuses my kindness which does really giving a positive impact on me.I wish I could be a little selfish at times and value myself more than others.
• Philippines
19 Jun 11
I don't like to change anything about me. I may be shy at certain circumstances but these also help in some ways. Gaining the experience makes me aware that all the seemingly negative reactions are really helpful to make myself a better person.
• United States
19 Jun 11
Though I am a very positive thinker and truly believe in positivity, at times I find I am way too harsh on myself. Therefore, I would probably change on how to be less tough on myself and allow things to fall where they do. I am very lenient towards others but find that for me I tend to set way too high of goals at times.