Which works better a man who loves a women or where the woman is crazy about man

United States
June 19, 2011 11:30pm CST
Which works better a man who loves a women or where the woman is crazy about man? In relationship usually one party has more power or influence seldom is the power equal. Which situation works better where the man is crazy about the women and puts up with more than he might in another situation or where a women is mad about the man and may put up with more to keep him?
2 responses
@deni2011 (15)
• United States
20 Jun 11
It depends some like getting crazy love and others don't. I am a woman that when I love I love hard and maybe I shouldn't but if I am into you I am going be crazy about you. If you are in a relationship where your mate is not crazy about you, GET OUT .
• United States
20 Jun 11
I do believe crazy love is overrated and not lasting because the physical will fade out but if you can connect spiritually it has a great chance of lasting. In my case I am in love with a woman who loves someone else but says she is trying to change her relationship and get out because that person does not respect her. I believe her however she is not strong enough to change and wants to just keep me hanging on. Her history is of being exploited sexually in her life but she is a very beautiful girl. I love her and wish she would be with me but she's still in love with him. However she stays with me 70% of the time and helps me with my kids. The key for me is to find enough strength to change my relationship with her and get out my self. Before I had no chance of this because I was madly in love but thats changing because I speak at church and its bringing new spirit and new life to my life. Im ready to change now and move on to something new.
• United States
20 Jun 11
Yes dear you are the one that has to change the relationship status, because right she is having the cake, the pie and the steak. She knows that you are deeply in love with her and you are going any where. How long have the two of you been together ?
• United States
20 Jun 11
deni we have known each other 15 years but been together off and on for 10 years she stays with me but Im have a new spirit where IM ready to grow beyond where we are. I am a welcome leader at church and developing in my ministry which is very important to me and its giving a new perspective and a new strength and I think I can make it without her now.
• United States
20 Jun 11
I also think the power is seldom equal. Women tend to think emotionally and men tend to think more rationally. My marriage is wonderful, but my husband has more power. It helps that my husband can talk sense into me and help me realize what the important thing to do is when I'm being hormonal or depressed. Also I think men are just cut out for power more than women are. I am definitely not a feminist. Women are better at nurturing, loving unconditionally, creating human beings (what is more important?) Men and women should be a team, equal in their own ways, but money gives the illusion of power.
• United States
20 Jun 11
In my case I am in love with a woman who loves someone else but says she is trying to change her relationship and get out because that person does not respect her. I believe her however she is not strong enough to change and wants to just keep me hanging on. The key for me is to find enough to change my relationship with her and get out my self. Before I had no chance of this because I was madly in love but thats changing because I speak at church and its bringing new spirit and new life to my life. Im ready to change now and move on to something new.