last man

@chum24 (569)
Philippines
June 21, 2011 5:31am CST
we've been years with my boyfriend and become more stronger :)i want my boyfriend would be my last man in my whole life but i don't think so it will happen because we're not the same RELIGION (im a Muslim and he is a christian) and perhaps our parents would not agree in our relationship :( its difficult for me if i will broke up with him. WHAT SHOULD I DO? yes!! our relationship was hidden to our parents, they are times that i want to tell to my parents about him but im scared maybe their opinions would be negative. what should i do???;((
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6 responses
@nemrac12 (388)
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
hello mylotter, it is really difficult if you enter in a relationship and and your religion is different from one another. You are a muslim, and what i know about being a Muslim is that you should marry also a Muslim, right? Muslim religion is strict, not like the Christians. Like my case, i was born a Christian Catholic, my husband is a Protestant. Because my husband loves me, he give way for me. If you really love your boyfriend and think that he is the man for you, why not fight for it? Or vice versa, your boyfriend may give way if he really loves you.
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
I think if your boyfriend really loves you he can change his religion.Just try to give him information about your religion.No need to force him, but it's your responsibility to share what you know.Good things can happen.Just trust in God.
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
22 Jun 11
yeah right ..i will or we will do anything the best we can be..thank U
@funnyGai (52)
• United States
22 Jun 11
hi chum24, what i feel, you have to explain to your parent, very clearly, this what i have in mind, tell all the good character he is having, if you communicate properly then they will accept. this looks good, with their blessing you have your life.
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
22 Jun 11
perhaps i will tell them soon ;) but now prioritize my studies and focus more. we can wait perhaps that time my parents will allow me to that man whom i want to be with ;)
@polaris77 (2020)
• Bacau, Romania
21 Jun 11
It's so sad to hear about people who are in love with each other,but have problems because they belong to different religions,it's unfair and cruel to deny them the right to happiness for religious reasons.I hope your parents are open-minded and will accept your relationship;anyway,if you really feel that he's your man you should fight to stay with him regardless of what people who judge others by religion think.
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
22 Jun 11
hopefully soon our parents would accept our relationship;).if he's the man i deserve for i will fight for him. ;)
@dilrajj57 (1759)
• Pakistan
1 Feb 12
i will say that as a muslim you cannot engaged with your boyfriend, you should leave your religion and its not good for you to leave the religion, if he is strong in your love the why he not change his religion for you to engage, your parents in this matter are right not to permission you with him.
@LittleMel (14059)
• Canada
4 Jul 11
you can't hide it forever if anyone should know, you'd rather they hear it from you and not from other people who might add lies and make it worse what matters is when to tell them and how have a talk with your bf and together you can formulate a plan be prepared for the worst and hope for the best
• Lithuania
22 Jun 11
If you both believe in true love and you think that nothing will be as perfect as your relationship you can't listen to your parents. Just simply listen to your heart, no matter what others say, it's YOUR life. You both are true believers in God, yes? So remember that belief unites people, and God is Love. Peace! :)