as men cheat.....

Philippines
June 23, 2011 8:45am CST
It is very normal to have an argument with your partner. I never tried to experience to become married though I want to.LOL... But the thing is I heard a lot of stories that some men that are already married cheats.. I don't understand why some men do that? Is it really normal for the guys do like than? or it just sometimes thay are just bored with their partners.
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@edsss17 (4398)
• Philippines
23 Jun 11
Hi janefatima, I guess yes, its men's nature to cheat even if they are already in a relationship.. but, maybe not all of them! My dad never did such a thing to my mom and am pretty sure about that. He's really faithful to my mom.. I don't know if i can find a guy like my dad.. The search is not yet over, i still have time to observe! HAHAHA!
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
I know you are right. Not all men cheat although some cheats. But i guess this has something to do with their nature. I believe that in love there is no old nor young of finding it. For us women not to have regrets in the future we should try to think, observe, know, etc. before letting the guy enter in our lives.
• Philippines
23 Jun 11
i believe it is a guy's nature to cheat. i really dont know why but yes they do. it is normal for guys to look at the physical aspect of the girl even though they have a girlfriend or even a wife. some say it could be a mistake of the girl because she must have not given the guy's wants, and i do not agree with that. it is really the guys.
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
I know you are right. I think this has something to do with their nature for some men. I don't know what are the thing that is present to their mind but one thing for sure they know how to love women if they really love that women.
@AFI34974 (61)
• United States
26 Jun 11
I don't necessarily believe it's a male's nature to cheat, but I do believe that being a chronic jerk is. It seems like with all guys, if he's not a cheater, then he's a liar, and if he's not a liar, then he's abusive, and if he's not abusive, etc. etc. A lot of guys try to use the excuse that it's in their nature to cheat and they can't help it, but that's total bull. You do what you WANT to do, nothing in your "nature" is forcing you to betray someone.
@laydee (12814)
• Philippines
23 Jun 11
I think anyone who could fully understand the reason as to why people cheat would be considered as the wisest person in history. Time and time again (I think ever since relationships began) there have always been talks bout cheating. Cheating doesn't only involve men, there are a lot of women who cheat on their husbands too. Though these stories are true and a lot have experienced it (I myself included) it's a wonder why people, both involved in such or not, still try on a new relationship. I won't begin to explain as to why there are people who cheat and I don't think I'm capable of answering for them (for I haven't tried). But there's always that puzzling answer that these people usually say, they'd say "I knew it was wrong but I don't know why I didn't stop myself." And sadly, the only thing that most could do is to just say "sorry". Well, there are times (most especially if the cheating is recurring, that 'sorry' is no longer enough. Anyhow, regardless how we say it, regardless how traumatized we are with those who cheat. We can't help but be hopeful that someday we can find that someone who won't cheat on us nor would we be tempted to cheat on them. But for now, I guess it's okay to just experience the joys of loving. Have a great MyLot experience!