how to know if a guy has a crush on youuu??

@amelly (1556)
Malaysia
June 26, 2011 3:14am CST
ok2..before anybody call me stupid or whatever..i want to share my story here..a guy asked me and my friend out yesterday..we went to a movie, karaoke and a lil bit of shopping..today, he called me up for lunch..i mean, he is very sweet and a nice guy..i don't want to take it wrongly and i never said that he liked me..i was just wondering..that;s all....what do u poeple think?? is he just being nice...or does he wants to be more than friend?..fyi..he is my classmate and i knew him since a year agoo..
8 responses
• United States
8 Jul 11
To be sure, when you go on the lunch date with him, watch his body language. Does he go out of his way to touch you? Does he sit near you, lean towards you when you are talking. Does he compliment you on your appearance? The only way to know for sure is for him to tell you, but watching his body language will give you some insight into his feelings towards you.
@mantis36 (4237)
• Philippines
16 Jul 11
watch out for the sleeping pills, its a common issue here in our country.... it's only a possible situation or may be too late.....
@amelly (1556)
• Malaysia
17 Oct 11
yeah..thanks..but i won't be needing it now..thanks to my dear friend who show me who he is
• India
27 Jun 11
i don't know about this guy. but if i have a crush on a girl, i would make sure she finds me everywhere. tell me something did he complain when you went shopping.
@amelly (1556)
• Malaysia
29 Jun 11
he did tell me all sort of things about his family and offer to send me back home this coming weekend but again....i still thinks he is being friendly..as a classmate
• India
29 Jun 11
many boys do that, boys will be boys, we tell almost every one about our family and friends, that almost includes friends friends in girls, and people we trust in. some tell so just to make others get a rough picture of their life, it all happens unknowingly. i also think he's just being friendly.
@AFI34974 (61)
• United States
26 Jun 11
It sounds like he likes you, and invited you and your friend out together to ease the tension he expected to feel. If he doesn't call your friend as well, it's definitely you. If he DOES call your friend, he might be playing games hoping to get something out of the two of you. Be careful, but give it a shot if you like him :)
@amelly (1556)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 11
well thanks fur the good advice..well, he get along easy with people..that;s why i said that i dun want to get any wrong idea..im just thinking that he is being polite and nice by calling me out for dinne
• India
27 Jun 11
easy going fella you say, then it maybe that he just enjoys your company, there is another case like, he need your help with something, which obviously is in your hands.
@andy77e (5165)
• United States
4 Jul 11
Typically, guys don't call up girls they don't like. Every once in awhile, you'll have someone who just thinks of you as a friend. I've had a few girls that I was really good friends with. But... there's only one way to find out... go to lunch. It's not that big of a deal. Go out to lunch, talk, and be friendly. He'll eventually find a way to let you know what he wants, either way. More importantly, you need to find out if he's worth being friends with. People sometimes act one way here, and another way there. You need to find out if he's really nice, or just playing. Either way, just enjoy the meal, and talk. That's all the matters right now.
@amelly (1556)
• Malaysia
17 Oct 11
well..i kinda hate him at the moment..and for the record,i don't even like him...after watching him yelling at my best friend for no reason,that's it..he is not worth it
@ebuscat (5949)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
For me if the staring like you are melt and shy in you.
@amelly (1556)
• Malaysia
29 Jun 11
aww...heheeh
@beajoy (12)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
Well maybe.. because he wont be spending his time on you if hes not interested. He want to get to know you more. Just go with the flow, enjoy the moment. Maybe he enjoys your company. Have fun and never worry about his feelings. If he likes you then good, if he doesn't then ateast you get to hang out with him. Who knows that feelings you guys feel if ever there is might grew.
@amelly (1556)
• Malaysia
29 Jun 11
yup..sure it is..but he is not my type...though he is fun to hang out with
@chiyosan (30205)
• Philippines
26 Jun 11
Well yes i think this guy is trying to get to know you more. And if has actually established a good start with Wu by inviting you out but with a friend and maybe if does still find you interesting after all and wants to in further by spending time with you alone. All i can say is for Wu to enjoy your time when you are together and tryin get to know him better too. Do not expect yet so you can have more fun. I believe you are still young so do not rush things and just date and be safe all the time. Alright!
@amelly (1556)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 11
hey there..yup2..im still young(like d fact!)...well..i hope everyhing well go well between us..i didn;t expext much...
@mantis36 (4237)
• Philippines
16 Jul 11
bring him to the test, a test that he can't noticed it as a setup...... make him more slave.... make him fall into anger and notice the way he behave himself or the attitude.... it's because when lucky to be married someday, you already know what kind of a person he is very early.... or else too late.... most of the male say's: "Don't you worry, even the stars in the night sky i can easily give it to you" but when marriage already finished.... the stars that he promised before is a fist strike to the head of the girl one hit the girl see's visual of stars roaming around the head 360 degrees....