Gents Thoughts on Crying Ladies

Philippines
June 27, 2011 7:18am CST
Gentlemen... Im curious. What exactly do you feel when you see a lady crying? Do you find her pathetic? Are you touched?
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8 responses
@birdie816 (1277)
• United States
25 Aug 11
well i am speaking for my husband here....he used to be touched alot when i cried. but recently i have been crying more and more, so he actually does get annoyed with me because he knows i will be fine in a few hours
@AishaBR (345)
• United States
27 Jun 11
Well i'm not a guy but I know how my boyfriend feels when he sees me crying. I rarely let him see me cry. And the few times he seen me cry, afterwards when we talk he tells me it breaks his heart when he sees me cry. He doesn't like to see me cry. And when I was in labor and he saw me crying because I was in so much pain he wanted to hurt someone because I was in pain and he couldnt do anything about it.
@HDHORDA4 (679)
• India
27 Jun 11
hhmmm i will say you that it depends upon the subject of crying means for what she is crying but i will definately try to help her and make her feel better.
• United States
27 Jun 11
A crying lady activates my Prince Charming Lady In Distress response, which was good long ago before I was married. Now I have to turn away or the jealous one will descend. ;)
@chiyosan (30204)
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
Well i an not a it but i would like t also Answer your discussion. For me, whenever i see a woman crying and i do not know her, it would always come to mind that she might be having a problem about her partner. And i think and wonder what happened that she could not hold her tears any longer.
27 Jun 11
It depends. If it's my lady, I wonder what's wrong and (in true IT helpdesk geek style) want to fix it. If it's someone random, I'm generally sympathetic. If it's someone in public, I usually wonder if they're a total psycho and avoid them like the plague.
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
I can't help to see a lady crying. I get teary-eyed when I got to see one. I don't find them pathetic, but I do find them helpless. I have a fair share of experience in seeing a girl cry. I always try to motivate them to fight out the emotions but still I can't make them stop. I guess there really is a difference on the state of crying for both men and women. The instinct of man is to automatically prevent or stop crying while that of a woman is to vent it all out and burst into tears. Seeing a woman cry is not a good sight after all except if it's tears of joy.
@picjim (3003)
• India
27 Jun 11
If the reason is a good one i don't think it is pathetic.I feel sad for them when they are in great difficulty and shed tears.But if they cry for no rhyme or reason then they are pathetic.I don't like to see anyone crying unless they are exceptionally wicked.Then i wouldn't mind saying something harsh to put them in their place.