Not only Girls admires him..but also Gays :)

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By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
July 2, 2011 10:12am CST
My son and I went to the market this afternoon. I noticed that there were young girls looking at him,smiling and giggles (ok fine). But,oh,not only girls are giggling and staring at him but also gays . One gay even touched him in the arm and wink. My son just smiled (uhmnn) I am not against gays I have gay friends.(many of them) Would you feel proud that your son is being admired not only by girls but also with same gender? My son is only 15 years old then..(*_*) Happy weekend dear mylotters
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16 responses
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
3 Jul 11
I don't have a problem with gay people sweetie. But i won't let them near my children, unless i know them for a long time, so i can trust them around my children.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
dear saphy, I have few gay friends in office and I've asks them about gay's life. My son don't have gay friends. I am not worry with gays admiring him,i am bit afraid with those young aggressive girls who keeps following and bugging him I felt I am too young to be a granny
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
come quick dear and make those young girls out of my son's way
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
4 Jul 11
I'll come and sort those girls out sweetie. I'm good with that. My nephew are scared of girls after i was done with him.
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• Mexico
3 Jul 11
Hi jaiho: I know it might feel uncomfortable but don't take it personal. You know that your son is straight and that he knows exactly what he wants so you don't have to worry. It's all about tolerance. If gay persons like your boy, that means that he must be handsome. That's all. As long as they won't be disrespectful to your son, you don't have to say anything. ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Jul 11
hello Alvaro, Nice to see you my friend. Yes,I have few gay friends in office and in the neighborhood and they are good and respectable person(professionals as well) Here in our country,gays are treated as normal people and are accepted by the society. thanks for your response dear and have a great Sunday afternoon
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
3 Jul 11
Hi jaiho.... LOL that is funny. You must be pretty proud of your son.. ? Well i have never come under that situation so i will not know how i would react if someone admires my son or daughter that way, but yeah sure it will be a good thing if someone admires them (be it straight or gay) ..
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
4 Jul 11
Sorry Jaiho, not really busy but yes i had some important work last week. :)
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
Any up coming concert as I can hear your drums beating
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Jul 11
hello voldrox, Well,gays admire guys ...and yes I feel proud that my son is being admired by young girls and also admired by gays. But also I fear a little knowing that,some gays are not good friends. I am never against gays,because here in our country there are lot of gays that really excels in their career and respected ones. Nice to see you again dear brother...you seems so busy
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• Philippines
2 Jul 11
Hello Jaiho, Is this the same young man who thought he had a relationship with "you know who". My personal view is that he can only just be friends with them. I don't know but it's hard to determine those who are really for him if he's not attractive anymore. he's only being admired but can he tell the difference? If i had a son i would feel proud but guide him in getting to know people.
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• Philippines
2 Jul 11
@ LK, Nope he is the second son the One is the youngest son
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
hello LK, No,this is the elder one my dear brother (hehehe) The youngest one is who you are saying...uhmnn,he's cute but I guess not the gay type
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
oopps! my mistake, he seemed to be handsome very handsome
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
10 Jul 11
Your son is looking so handsome, looking so nice, looking so good. And obviously the girls can attract to him. But he is just 15 years old now. After he reached to 20s then it is problem for you, Lol. As a mother take care about him. And the gays are also human beings, they also love the beauty and appreciate.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Jul 11
hello rameshchow, Thanks for the compliments . Yes,he is only 15 and I am just having a little fear with those young girls who are following him. I don't have problem with gays.i have few gay friends in the office and they are good people. thanks for your response and have a good day
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
18 Jul 11
Prof dada and maa Kalyani are my dear virtual parents
• India
17 Jul 11
Do you have any relationship with Professor Bhuvan?
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@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
2 Jul 11
No wonder the gays are admiring him. He's such a fine young men. I guess it's okay if they are just admiring him. You must be very proud of him.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
yes,I did talked with him dear. As we can never tell,young genres are hard to control
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
hello Jlyn, Thank you I want to feel proud of him and feel a bit fear too,because girls are really trying to get his attention. I know it's crush and admiration..puppy love..but somehow gives me a little fear too. thanks for your response and have a great weekend
@Jlyn10 (11966)
• Malaysia
2 Jul 11
Well, the kids today are different from when during our time. Girls are getting wild these days. Maybe you should have a talk to your son about the birds and the bees. Happy weekend to you too.
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• Philippines
3 Jul 11
Your son is indeed a handsome and charming, young man. He must have inherited it from your genes. I don't have anything against the same gender admiration. It's natural. May it be filled innocent admiration or more than that as long as they are not doing something that could make me feel threatened or scared. And since your son has you to guide, I think he would be perfectly be fine.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
hello totallyundecided, That's nice to know that you are not against gays. I have few gay friends in office and they are good ones and I also learned a lot from them about gay life and I understand more about their feelings. And I am trying to explain to my son to treat the gays with respect. I am bit afraid with the young girls who are quite aggressive. thanks for your response and have a great day
@bingchen (1119)
• China
4 Jul 11
if as his parent you can treat it with quiet mind.i think this is not too worried about it.as young child,we need to give him some advice and let him know how to deal with it.this can let him grow up healthy.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
hello bingchen, I always talked with my son and I know he knows how to handle situation. And as a parent I am here to give him advice and tell him what to avoid. I also have gay friends in office and I've learned about them about gays. Gays are accepted here in our country,and even respected for their skills and being successful. Thu there are bad ones,whom I should be aware of. thanks for your response and have a great day
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
2 Jul 11
You must proud of your son, and I guess he got the look from you right? He must be super - handsome in some way, and he is admired by all people around the market. You should brag about his handsomeness, and you mustn't need to worry about him finding a girl. I wish that I can be that handsome like him, so all the girls can admire me too.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
hello king, I feel proud,but also fear. Ohh, I can't imagine girls will come to our house just to see him (hehehe) just kidding. But it really gives me some fear. Maybe there were girls also admiring you,you just don't know have a great Sunday
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
LK, Oh no...I am too young to be a grandma...(hahaha) Few girls are really courting him now...uh uh
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
oh, yeah how about girls courting him instead
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• India
3 Jul 11
is this a gay - this is a man dressed as woman they move in train beg money indirectly
Jai beta My kids are grown up, married, the grandson is going to join college this year.. I think he is admired by girls, this is natural, law of nature.. So Honey beta's place have gays, will you please tell me what a gay is? Here i saw these MEN wearing saree and blouse with padded bra, they were sitting in railway compartment, i took this picture with cell phone, without their knowledge , do gays look like them Will you please post picture of a gay there? Blessings from Dada
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
dear dada, Gays here in our country are dressed as normal like guy. But with some very rich gays who can afford to maintain taking hormones,they really dressed and looks like girls (but they act respectable) Since our country accept gays in the society,most of them try to maintain a good image. Here in our place gays are respected and famous fashion designers,hairdressers ,celebrities and they excel in their respective careers and fields. Some gays are over-acting...but those are just few. Good to know you are back home dada
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
3 Jul 11
Hi friend! Wow,you're lucky you have a handsome son,hehe! Well,we both are lucky,lol! I also have a son jaiho and he's now 20yrs old but what I don't like with my son is that he's not open with me when it comes to girls,grrr! I think he is very uncomfortable with me when it comes to this,hehe! As to your questions,YES! Being admired by someone regardless of the gender is something jaiho,not all can be admired by many so you should be proud of your son. Can't blame him if some gay admires him,haha! BTW,I think your son has the factor of being a model! My son doesn't want poses of photos like that of your son,lol! My son usually pose like a crazy one in pictures,waaaaa!!! He's that "crazy",haha!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Jul 11
hello cute kid, My son is also not that open with me when it comes to guy's issue. And I guess this is normal,because they feel ashamed to mother,you know...they're young teens my dear (hehehe) He is actually not good with posing for pictures,he also don't like it. But he got interested when one photo printing agency wants him to join their contest (modelling contest) He was given the application form..but he did not fill up the form because he is too shy...this offer was given to him last year. Maybe because he was too young by that time,but now he seems to get interested with modelling. I just don't want to forced him to things he doesn't like,i just waited for him to decide freely and with willingness. So your already had an adult son my friend...and this cute kid? Just 2 of them? have a great Sunday
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
hello Jaiho, This is not a surprise for me he is really a head turner specially to the GAY one He has the charms and height less the moods I hope he can use it someday in a good cost happy mylotting
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
oh yeah,how can I forget those gays in your neighborhood swooning each time we visit you
• Philippines
2 Jul 11
Well, i hope he keeps it until he becomes a man. but i hope he's guided well, on how to treat women the right way. there are men out there who takes for granted and takes advantages of women who admired them with.
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
2 Jul 11
No. Though it is recognised in some places there is a stigma attached behind gays.. Of course u can be happy. good day.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Jul 11
hello ravi, Yes,I understand what you mean here my friend. But here in our country,gays are accepted in our society,they are treated equal. Yes,there are bad ones...but there are also good ones,much even good than the straight guys...so we cannot judge them because they are gays. have a great weekend
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
3 Jul 11
no problem madam - we all act as per the way we have been brought up by our parents and grand parents. Let us enjoy our traditions and culture. good day
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• Philippines
4 Jul 11
That's quite alarming for a parent like you. I guess, I would feel the same way if there will be guys who will be admired by gays. You should talk to your son about this matter. Being a friend to your son will open more discussions between the two of you. Good luck and just be a cool parent..
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
4 Jul 11
hello marilyn, Well,my son is avoiding those gays,but I told him to respect them. Gays won't harm my son...they are just admiring as we know how gays admire young men that looks handsome to them. I am more afraid with those young aggressive girls that are always following my son and are very open with their feelings. thanks for your response and have a great day always
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Jul 11
hi jaiho congratulations on a handsome son who attracts girls and eve gays.He sounds as intelligent as his mom so I would not be concerned about gays at all. they are also human beings too you know. He is straight and seems to be slated to be straight too.Be proud and haoot and I hope he has behind his smiles real resp ect for the young ladies who stare at him.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Jul 11
dear Hatley, Thanks a lot dear. He had crushes but still not in a relationship. I always told him,he should and must tell me if ever he has a girlfriend already. As of now he is interested to playing band and he specialized with playing the guitar and trying to learn the drums. And,oh...my kids loves Andrea Bocelli too dear Hatley
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
3 Jul 11
Hello Jaiho, You son is really handsome thats why he is liked by girls & gays thats the fact.The only thing which is of worry is your son is just 15 years and you have to look after him because this is the age when children are more likely to have affairs. Make him to concentrate more on his studies. But really you should be proud of son.
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
3 Jul 11
hello sjvg, Thanks a lot for the compliments dear Yes,that's what I am always telling him,not getting into serious relationship. I am way afraid with young girls,coz they're bit aggressive (`_`) thanks again and have a great Sunday afternoon