Do guys really flirt even if they are already committed to someone else?

Well I think it's a mistake to be 'committed' to a girlfriend. That is what a girlfriend is... it is a girl... whose a friend. Commitment is when you are married. When you are married, then you are married. So yes, guys typically flirt with girls when they are not married. And just because he's your boyfriend, doesn't mean he's your husband. He's a 'boy' who is a 'friend'. That is what boyfriend means. It doesn't mean committed faithful spouse, because he's not a spouse that promised to be committed or faithful. Now if he proposes to you, and you get engaged, then that is a commitment to marriage, and then yes, if he's flirting around, you need to find someone else.

I will probably be saying that there are only some guys who does this. Not to generalize since I know some guys who are really committed to their wives or gfs. My bf for example is loyal to me. I know he doesn't flirt with any other girls he meets. I know I am sure of it because I have known him for 5 years and his friends around him would probably be telling if he flirts with other girls. I think guys who flirts with others basically are those that are not really true about their feelings with whom they are with now.

I don't know what it is about guys, but a lot of them do flirt despite the fact that they are supposed to be with other people at the time. I think that sometimes they need confirmation that other women are interested in them, almost as an insurance policy if they break up with their current partner they will not be worrying about being "on the market" for too long. I don't think that it is respectful though, particularly those men who insist on flirting with other people even though their partners are in the same room with them. That's just rude, and I often think that they're just trying to show off.

I think player guys tend to find thrill on flirting with other girls and not being caught. If they can stay uncaught, it brings a good feeling for the player guy that his skills in womanizing is excellent. Another reason may be due to something lacking with their relationships. Another reason that I can think of is that playboy men oftenly looks for competition. They got this notion that he who gets more girls is the man.

I think flirting is common but not once you are married. I think harmless flirting happens a lot and I don't think it's horrible but I still don't like it because who knows how far harmless flirting goes when your not around... I think men and women do it although I have seen it more in men. I think a man possibly cannot even help it, if they see a woman that attracts them I think it's almost automatic for them...

Most guys are really flirt1 I don't know what's in their minds but it's their nature to flirt. I think they find it so exciting and it adds spices in their lives which i think is very wrong! But yea, I'm trying to get use to it and tried myself to ignore it if ever I'll found out his flirting with other girls. And if i see him soon I'll kick his face!like seriously and leave his heart bleeding, revenge is sweeter!

It depends on the guy....some do and some don't.I don't think it is right.But,I guess it is up to the woman that they are commited to.I know some couples where the man flirts with other women and his wife or girlfriend doesn't mind because she trusts him. Personally I would not like it.But,just talking to someone(like a co worker,friend,relative) or looking at a pretty girl walking down the street is not flirting.Some women have to learn the difference.

I guess some guys are just being funny and very accommodating and then,mistaken for flirting. The problem is,this start with friendly talk,kidding and teasing. Then the girl will mistaken it for flirting and starts showing liking to guys,and guys are too sensitive to feel if the girl like him or giving hint...then the problem starts. So,guys flirt because girls give the motives. Guys won't just jump and say he like the girl is he is already committed or married,unless the guy is a master cheater. So,girls should be aware and smart with dealing these kind of guys. And it can't be blame to guys all the time,girls flirts even knowing that the guy is married or committed already.

I think these guys are habitual to the flirting so they can not do anything else but flirt. Suppose you have a habit of sleeping then you can not do anything about it in same way if they have the habit of flirting they can not do anything about it. Have a nice day.

hello, You know that is one of the main factor of problem between the relationship of husband/wives, boyfriend/girlfriend. Both party are not really contented and still want to flirt. Lets open to the fact that not just boys do this lets admit that it also happened to girls. right? We flirt, they flirt vise versa. but usually boys are more committed to this sin. I dont really know what are their reasons, they just maybe not contented or still looking for something.

I think there is such a things as "harmless flirting" and I allow these on my relationship with my boyfriend. We have to admit that at some point, we want the feeling of being the center of attention to someone. As long as it doesn't go beyond of what is appropriate for us, flirting is okay.

Hi Chiyosan, Many a times things like these happen even though a guy may be in a relationship or even married. As long as he is not cheating then it is acceptable. Its ok if he does it in a joking way and at the end of it all he is still in love with his girl/woman. But as we all know how guys can be we often cross that limit and make mistakes we should not be doin. Hey but dont you think so that the same is also done by girls and women. I think they should also blame themselves equally for starting things. Everyone keeps pointing at the guy as to he did this and he did that even though he is committed. But at the end of it as I said if done jokingly its fine, crossing the limit is not accepted at all..

well for me I like honesty and faithfulness, but there is no bad thing in flirting unless guys you don't go beyond your limitations, still you remember that you are already committed. Flirting isn't bad it is same like when you are joking we need also others to rock our world, but you need to be aware on temptations.