Do you consider this kind of love is fate or experience?

Malaysia
July 10, 2011 8:42am CST
Have you been in love? I have been in love twice. One with a girl and one with a man. But the weirdest thing is we never went out together dating. Just that we met in school and one at his house. Do you still consider this is a fate or experience? To me, it is yes.
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@Jlyn10 (10576)
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
Yes, I have been in and out of love. Probably the love that you felt in school were just infatuation and not real love. Maybe you did have a liking for that boy but it is not real love until you get to know that person and are able to learn more about him. For you, I think it is just an experience that you have gone through in your life. And I too had the experience of 2 girls (tomboys) falling in love with me in school.
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
Ooh really! I thought these trend started back in the 90s. I thought people in the 80s and 70s aren't so fond about homosexuality. Oops I made a mistake. So you ignore those tomboys or go along with them?
• Malaysia
12 Jul 11
That's great. I also planned to let my children, if I were a mother in the future to study in co-ed school. Its better. Wow! You became best friends with them :)
@Jlyn10 (10576)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 11
Yes, best friends till today. At least, that is the only thing that I can offer them, my friendship.
• Bangladesh
11 Jul 11
i am in love... i am in live with her for last 5 years.... the most impotant thing is understanding...i contacted with her through mig33.com its all about fate/ i am lucky that i got a girl friend like her. i love her too much...........
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
I believe love is everywhere. Just that I haven't met one through online. This time I asked from God is a good man of course I won't be so silly like the past.
• Bangladesh
11 Jul 11
i believe too. may god bless u. hope you will get right partner of your life.. dont so upset. just remember, whatever happened, it happened for your betterment
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 11
It is a fate and then turn into an experience. Do you think that it's a real love or you just like him/her? No matter it is just like or love feeling at the end it will become a fate and experience in your life dictionary.(^^)
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
Yes it has entered into my love dictionary. I hope to meet one last to be my real companion. The one who stuck with me through thick and thin. Hopefully is a guy this time.
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
It should be a guy.(^^)
• India
11 Jul 11
it isnt love but it could be fate that yuh can be friends with those persons why do yuh think that it is love? love is wen yuh cant stop thinking about that person love is when yuh care about that person more than anything it when yuh know that person more than yewrself ;)
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
Maybe I was still young then. Infatuation is so called love then. But really now I miss them. I would like to see them now in person but I couldn't do it due to my pride.
@yspmyl (3438)
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
Hi! I believe most of us here have been in love before, and everyone will have their own experience when talk about love. You may have the love kind of feeling towards someone, but if you never tell the person, and either one of you never tell the other person, nothing will happen and nothing will produce from there. If you are the only one who have feel toward the others, that is only consider a love from yourself. I think this kind of love is the not the healthy love. I think most of the love story happen in school mostly are consider as puppy love where you just have the feeling of liking someone but not the real love.
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
I have told both of them, the girl rejected me and treat me as enemy and the guy seems to be not care at all. I think he enjoys gossips made by people around as some of my friends spread the news of me liking him. I think one's life will be worst or uncontented if he/she never experienced what is love.
@savypat (20247)
• United States
10 Jul 11
all experiences in life have lessons to be learned. Whatever yours are take the lessons and move forward.
• Malaysia
12 Jul 11
Yes I guess this is a learning love experience for me.
• Portugal
10 Jul 11
well i think that is fate^^ i think that we all have a fate in our life. and in your fate you had to meet them and fall for them^^ its cute that you tell us that one time was for a girl and other time it was for a boy. this just means that you really are an honest person and are not afraid to say how you really are^^ i think that it is also a bit of experience bcs you learnt some things with those relations. we always learn something when in love^^
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
Yes I have learned that honesty is the best policy. Ha...ha Now it really matters to me the gender of my partner. I don't want to be called lesbian:(
• India
10 Jul 11
Love has many myth with its name.it has some variety also.motherly love,brotherly love,a boy and girl love.but as you said you are in love with two person.i think 1st time love should be called attracti√łn.when we just see and fell in love.but 2nd love can be called mature love.i have been in love 2 times.so i undrstand it.
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
Yes the first one is so deep in my memory. I can treat the second one as love. But I failed in the 2nd relationship anyway.
@aweins (4203)
• India
10 Jul 11
hi dear friend, i think love happens to everyone once in a lifetime. be it after marriage, be it before marriage , be it in your childhood , be it in your adulthood. but love happens. and as you have said once you were with a girl and once with a boy , there i feel that is your choice your liking, your satisfaction. it is not fate. people say and while in a flow i may also say that, may be it is a destiny, but it is your choice also , is it not ? i am married and i am having a daughter but i had both boy friend and girlfriend. i mean when i was not married i was in love with a boy but there was no marriage on our cards. not getting married was our mutual decision. and then i a was with a girl but girl was a very good friend so i will say that i was in a relationship with her. but now after getting married i think i was made to to love and stay with this man. i love him and our marriage was also love marriage. our style of marriage is also one of its kind. we met online and had a talk for less than two months and then i came all the way to meet him and we saw each other and that very day we decided to get married and we got married on the day after that. so , somewhere it is fate and somewhere it is your choice also, lol, so best of luck in your life.
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
congratulations!
@bouncybug (615)
• South Africa
10 Jul 11
Yes I have also been in love - two times as well! Interesting that you have been in love with both a boy and a girl! I am currently with the boy I that I think I am in love with, let's hope our relationship is a success!!
• Malaysia
12 Jul 11
Pray for your success!
• Malaysia
10 Jul 11
hello, yes i have ever been in love and currently in a relationship with my bf. when i was in school, i had a few crush with boys in my class but i just kept it to myself because i dont know how would he respond if i tell him about my feeling. funny thing is, we still remain friends up to this day, maybe fate just wanted us to be friends i guess :)
• Malaysia
12 Jul 11
Yes I believe fate brought you two together and become friends.
• India
10 Jul 11
You can say it both.when you 1st time love thts a fate.but when you love that can also be by fate but you will use ur experience there.
• India
10 Jul 11
You can say it both.when you 1st time love thts a fate.but when you love that can also be by fate but you will ure ur experience there.