3 people having a relationship? would you accept this?

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Portugal
July 12, 2011 3:00pm CST
hi guys^^ i watched a spanish series a few time ago, where a woman and two men were having a relationship. at first the guys wanted her only for himself but one day, one of the guys got angry, and the other one slept with her alone and he missed the other guy. so then they accepted to have a three people relation. so they all slept together. would you as a woman accept to be with two guys like this? and you as a guy would you accept to share your gf with other guy? about me i wouldnt accept this. i dont have a bf but if i had i wouldnt want other guy to sleep with us. i need only one guy in my life. i dont judge who has a relation like this but i wouldnt do so^^ what about you guys? please share your opinions^^
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27 responses
• Philippines
16 Jul 11
hi sweet, Is this movie the actress is Salma Hayek or Penelope Cruz? Well for me I believe that when it comes to a relationship like this it should only two person involved. I am not in this kind of relationship eh..... happy mylotting
• Newton Lower Falls, Massachusetts
31 Mar 15
too bad
@dodo19 (47034)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
13 Jul 11
I'm only in a relationship with one person, and that person is my husband. Personally, that's enough for me. I am happy with this relationship. First of all, I wouldn't really feel comfortable to be in this relationship. It's not really something that I want. Second of all, I can't say that my husband would feel comfortable to be in this type of relationship either. Neither one of us are interested in it. We're very happy with our relationship and it works for us. I do understand that it works for some people, but I don't think that it really works for me. It's not really what I want.
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Wow, happy to hear that you're so contented with your husband. :)
• Mexico
16 Jul 11
Hi sweet love forever: Actually we usually watch all these stories talking about strange relationships on tv everyday . In reality I think this won't work at least for me because, in my case I need this sense of exclusivity. My feelings would be confused if I'd kinow that my girl is with someone else at the same time. There must be a lot of tension. For me, no way! ALVARO
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
15 Nov 11
For me, Love can only be between two persons. I don't agree with having another person in the relationship. I know someone who has another girl where he is working now and another girl where he is originally from. I know this is different from the series you watched but it's more or less the same because both girls know that the guy is having an affair with both of them although not at the same time because they are from different countries. I totally disagree with this kind of relationship because it's like playing with two girls at 1 time and seeing who is giving him the best of what the other can give. Why not just stick to one and be happy with just one girl? We all know we can only be married with just one person and that we can only be in love with just one but we are too blinded by other joyful acts that the other can give which is totally wrong.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
19 Jul 11
Hi Sweet! What kind of relationship is that?? Perhaps for people like them honesty and loyalty are nothing as it clearly shows that they are not loyal to each other and love with multiple person?? A big no to me. Why should I get into such relationship??? One is already enough for me~(^^)
• Newton Lower Falls, Massachusetts
31 Mar 15
For 2 guys and girl maybe not. but for 2 girls and guy if the girls are straight or bisexual, and if the man is trustworthy, then MFF might work out just a little bit better.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
16 Jul 11
never done that but I've heard that happens in real life personally I think it's complicated but if all parties work on it, then it might work
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
13 Jul 11
I don't have any problem with people being in a 3-way relationship. I don't know that I would ever do that, but it's just fine.
@chaska (170)
• United States
13 Jul 11
I am married for 12 years and my husband can be pretty demanding and wants to have intimacy every day if possible. I find it hard to please him sometimes, so I could not try to please two men.I also would not feel right bringing a third person into our relationship, because who knows he may decide that he likes that persn better. I would be just heartbroken if my husband were to sleep with someone else so I would not want to give him permission. Many people will allow a three way intimacy hoping that things will stay the same, but sometimes those 2 people may leave you out . When that happened you would not be able to give much argument since you had given permission the first time that happened. I don't judge others , but I know that I could not bear my husband with someone else so I will not be intimate with anyone else either.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
15 Jul 11
Before I continue...I would like to say, hello. It's been a long time that we can't exchange ideas... Well, for me I don't like love triangle. I want have one and only love alone. Sad to know you don't have boy friend now. I though you have, friend?
• Indonesia
13 Jul 11
I can imagine share my life with two guys as the story above.For me one guy is enough and I don't want to hurt someone else, especially my boyfriend
@angie20 (191)
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
I can't consider having three people in a relationship that healthy. According to the holy bible, you can't serve two masters at the same time. I tend to further strengthen it with three level of simple grounds: first, a woman will have a hard time to balance her love towards the two men; second, a woman will experience difficulty every problem she will have with each guy and lastly, a woman will find it tough to control the two guys. It's not love, it's selfishness. We are given only one heart for we should love only one person. Having two person should require another heart. What I really mean is, its better to love one and give all your best shot than many to be divided equally.
@jdex_143 (1093)
• Philippines
15 Jul 11
This is a rare case. As a woman, I would never allow myself to be with two guys all at the same time. I can never imagine myself to be in that situation. I respect myself a lot and I think to be with two guys and sleep with both of them at the same time is like exploiting oneself already. That's not good. Why would a person go with that situation? My boyfriend would definitely disagree with this. I hope those guys and girl will realize that what they are doing is not good and perhaps correct their mistakes. :)
@Deepu49 (43)
13 Jul 11
yuck.., no way two men can stay in relation with one woman but the other way around can happen...ha ha ha
@anil02 (24688)
• India
13 Jul 11
Hello, It is series not a real life. In series and movie these things are possible but not in real life. At least in my country relation of this type never acceptable.
@m_perez (506)
• United States
13 Jul 11
I can't imagine how much problems could come from this.I've watched a similiar scenario on true life and one of the guys felt really left out. I really don't mind three person relationships. It's up to people to live how they wish. If I wanted a three person relationship I wouldn't want to be judged. But I don't think it would be my thing. I really would just like to be with one person.
• United States
13 Jul 11
I recently read an ebook that had this kind of situation. I definitely would not accept that kind of situation. I am married and my hubby is the only man for me. There will be nobody else in our relationship.
@rog0322 (2829)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Jul 11
Hi sweet, It may be weird but it may become true. What is outlandish ten, twenty years ago, is today's style. In our place, when a young girl goes out with a man alone,has her hands touched, get kissed or gets pregnant before marriage, it is scandalous. When a married person has an affair, the whole town get to go bananas over it. Today, what with the trend of the idolized actors and actresses, mega stars, stars, starlets and artists changing partners like clothing, most of us lesser citizens accepted them as facts of life. I shall not waste my effort getting surprised if the scenario you described gets over the screen and spills out to the everyday life we shall have. You see, art emulates reality and vice versa for that matter. Personally, I may not like the arrangement from a certain perspective but it may be different if I get to the real situation in one way or another. I have an open mind, you see...
• Indonesia
13 Jul 11
Wow... it was horrible! i can not imagine, if must have to share the love, the soul, and our body with the others. Vey unusaul... not normal, and i would hate that situation. Even, if my friend have that experiencing that situation, for example, and i would not be his friend anymore. Just be a normal lover... and enjoyed!
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Well, it's just a movie. In my part I will never accept that, that's so stupid. I don't want to sleep with two guys at all.hahaha! I can never see myself in that kind of situation. What would people think about me then? Gosh, I can't stand that.