What are the signs to see in someone before to trust them?

Thank you! Yes, that is true. For example, it doesn't matter how naive a young guy is, again for example, if he hang outs with criminal, guys that steal and stuff, it doesn't matter how much he doesn't know, he will change company once he realize he's not like them. Company can really show one's carachter. There was this guy I dated once,we were really in love but man, then I met his friends: BOTH CHEATED. I really didn't know the girls cause I would tell them, I didn't care, but I didn't know those poor girls. What do you think I thought about the guy? We were friends for so long but I don't care if he was loyal, he had friends like this, I think he could have that inside of him and didn't know yet. Of course this was the major reason to get the hell away from him. Friends with cheaters? I thought when I learned this truth: "Are you kidding me?" No way. When there's bad company I don't think the person could be different. I mean how can we hang out with people that act like we don't agree upon?

Birds of a feather flock together.

Thank you. You must be such a sweet person, be careful. You can't trust too much as even people that we know for long might not be exactly how we see them. Please be careful.

Thank you! No I don't think it's enough but no, I don't judge by first impression. I even seek to talk to people that have been 'rumoured' this and that because I don't believe in rumours. I met amazing people that had a 'bad reputation' about this or that and time showed me that whoever started this 'reputation' and rumour was jealous of the girl, can you believe that? I don't trust gossip so I don't judge people even by what many believe they are. First I believe someone was jealous of the targeted person. Of course that ALSO half of the times the gossip was TRUE! hahahaha No dear friend, everyone deserves a chance. I've been a victim of gossip by jealous girls as well I know they might create the nasty things. But there are actions that for me are: the way they treat an elderly person, a child and an animal that says ALL. No one takes interest in elderly, children and animals to profit cause it's not possible to profit from them, so...if they are interested, I think that's where there's the magic.

Thank you! Time can be a crachter revealing thing, but specially we can watch closely. For example I wouldn't want to be friends with girls that we go to the bathroom together and they ignore the cleaning lady, I don't think people like that are good people. Like I know it's her job but if she's cleaning my dirty mess, I should respect this lady, and she gets tired more easily than me so elderly need support. I don't know, it's just something that bothered me working in some places where I was beginign to befriend a colleague at work and she just ignored when the cleaning lady said hello or something you know, I don't befriend anymore after something like this. Poor cleaning ladies.

Thank you! Indeed I did it a thousand times, I can't trust anymore without seeing it. But I give everyone a chance, even people that sometimes are rumoured to have done something. I met the most amazing people that actually had a bad reputation here and there. I think that half of these people just have a very jealous enemy that wished to be her.