Peculiar thing to happen in love!
July 17, 2011 3:00pm CST
Hi all lotters. My love life is rocking. I am happy, she is happy. Now, I am talking about a peculiar kind of thing that happened to me (and her). There was this girl in our school. (Me and my love are friends and lovers from school!) This girl had this tendency of exaggerating things. For example, one day she would come up with a story of like three of her uncles gifted her same b'day gift, means exactly the same, etc. She is married now. I came to know about that through facebook. She sent me a message through fb that -She loved me in school 'although no longer carries those emotions till now!' (I am quoting her here!) She also said that if I had dumped my girl then, she would have jumped at me or so with love! I found this really peculiar. Talked about it with my love. She said - 'It's ok. Forget it!' Now I am unable to forget. lol Do you have such incidents/things in your (love)life? Eager to know!!!
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18 Jul 11
I did. One of my long time best friend back in school 27 years ago talked about his secret feelings towards me. We're both married now and have kids of our own. He just want to express or tell me that he secretly admired or loved me during our school days,but so afraid to tell me before because of fear that i might get rid of him. We just laughed at that confession..we're good friends and we will remain that way.
18 Jul 11
In my case, I don't know much about this woman. Means, I don't know what kind of a personality she is now. A very long gap of non-communication between us was there. I don't she'll be comfortable being a friend. Means meeting in FB and in reality are different things, no? And she was not much of a friend of mine in school. For me this is the most surprising part!!!
18 Jul 11
Hi Anupam, This happens to many as a part of school love which is a love that comes like butterflies. So either you are strong, but the gurl has different thoughts. She expects more from the love, which is the reason might be for split up. Love at right age will really bring lots of cheers. All the best for you!
18 Jul 11
Hi, I like your username! Besthope! I can actually count 44 best hopes in my life. Anyways, I think I fall in love at the right age. I was 14 then! And after 12 years, we are going to marry. Here, I was talking about a completely different girl. She was not even my good friend then. But she desired me secretly. And she is expressing it after all these year, when she is married for almost a year now!!! May be finding me in facebook triggered that. She just messaged me right away, without having a prelude kind of dialogue between us. Strange it was for me, really!
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17 Jul 11
This has happened to me a lot. I have often had a few boys wanting me at the same time (surprising!) but they wouldn't tell me until I was with someone. I have boys from my past saying if I left my love they would want to be with me, but I say no way! I am in love and want to be with my partner.