What your clothes say about you?
By tash01
@tash01 (2030)
Jamaica
July 19, 2011 4:47pm CST
In our world today,their is fashion which some are hot are not.Today not every one is dressing modest any more,people are dressing more in a naked form .
now a days even teen are wearing short clothes,and even adult too.
With the current fashion trend, Modesty has gone right out the window and are been replace by tight and short clothes.
But most of us don't know that the clothes we wear ,tell a story about us the individual.
It has been said that a woman who cover her body,show respect,and regards for her male acquaintance by not tempting them to lust.here is a quote i want to share.
"Your dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman, and a loose enough to show you're a lady."
Is it true that woman who wear,less clothing attract men more?
Are a woman ,who dress modest attract more?
What you have to say about ,woman who wear short clothing that are revealing?
DO YOU LIKE IT?
19 responses
@djbtol (5493)
• United States
20 Jul 11
There is another saying about modesty: Clothes are meant to conceal, not reveal.
Clothes are meant to cover the body, but through the years, clothes designers have move toward designs that accent the body, especially those parts that should be covered.
You are right, the clothes one chooses can tell a story. Women defend their right to wear what they like, and men defend their right to window shopping that which is on display.
I often think there is a story about a girl and her butt. Some girls wear pants that remove all mystery and answer all questions. Others are careful to wear a top of some kind that conceals most of their bottom. It clearly seems that they are attempting to remain more modest, while still enjoying the option of wearing pants. Maybe these women are aware of where a man's eyes will travel. I'll have to think about that for awhile yet.
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comfortable clothing.
I wear a bit tight clothes,but it whens am home i wear those.I try to dress modest.
@samafayla33 (1856)
• United States
20 Jul 11
My clothes say that i am po and I am heavy. I wear tees, yoga pants and short hair. lol
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@walking2010 (1009)
• United States
12 Aug 11
I don't know because I know some time when you dress in your bum clothes like some days you just don't care you see more people but even then some men are attracted to that its crazy right and then some people will talk to you with less clothes but if you notice look at the type of men you attract each time when you dress different ways.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
20 Jul 11
Yes friend in our community after marriage women covered her whole body and therefore she wear the saree for respects their male family members and before marriage a girl can wear jeans, slacks etc. but she cannot wear very short skirt. It is not allowed in our community. I think if men is innocent and shy then women even she is wearing short dress cannot attract him. But if men is interested only in girls then less dress attract that men but not good intention. I think short skirt is not good for women at least in our country. But in other country habit is such then no problem because there tradition is such so nobody should have problem.
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@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
the kind of dress that we choose to wear would definitely be a reflection of who we are inside. It tells something about ourselves . although some people would not realize it .
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
27 Jul 11
A lot of woman of today don't know how to dress and what to wear .the clothes we wear tell a story about us,A woman can look sexy in any thing she choose to wear.Female need to realize that the clothes we choose to wear,is a reflection an who we are on the inside and i agree with you Hotsummer.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
20 Jul 11
it's up to you what you want to wear, but am still saying that a woman should dress modest especially if she is a mother.
The respect you give other,is the same respect your going to get back.female should dress with confident.
these fashion are coming with wall robe malfunction,so be careful what you call fashion.
@meenalkadian (348)
• India
20 Jul 11
I do not think that the woman who wear less clothes attract more man. Man attract to those woman who dress well and look beautiful and charming. A revealing dress which does not suit on the person who wear it only get bad comments and people stare at them not because of attraction but because of curiosity.
@abatencila (970)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
I guess you are what you wore. In order for you to gain respect from others, you should respect yourself first. How can a man respect a woman who wore something so revealing in public?We should learn to dress properly. It's okay to wear a swimsuit in the beach, but please wear something decent inside the church. Most men will marry someone who they can be proud of and not the one who can bring shame on them.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
20 Jul 11
Female must respect them self,before people can respect.wore proper clothing and cover your body,if you want respect from people especially men.
I you know most female who get rape,is because they are something too much skin and a man can't get by will so he take it by power.
Some we want to dress sexy,yes but do at home.
Woman must dress and feel confident in her self,that other will look up to you.
@abatencila (970)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
I agree to both of you (tash01 and kareemadivina). Respect comes from us. Good comment!
@pinkpiglet (330)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
Personally, I'm against wearing revealing clothes. It is just not my style, and not me. I like wearing comfortable clothes, just T-shirt and jeans. But I also love wearing cute dresses, but nothing revealing. I also love a rocker chic style of clothing. But I don't wear clothes to attract men. I wear them for myself. :)
@catof1 (683)
• United States
19 Jul 11
I think it has to do with the woman her self and what type of guy she wants to attract. I my self like to dress modest but since I have a heavy top its hard with todays clothes to hide that and it seems to distract. Now that I am stay at home mom/wife I really try not to wear anything to provative since it does distract. When I do my husband just wants to go the bedroom. I know funny but true. I feel like since I am 31 now I should dress with more care and not go out with skimpy clothes. Im a role model now.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
20 Jul 11
I have a heavy top as well,but if am going i try to wear cover blouse.but then,men still see them.
When am home,i just wear some little blouse and maybe a shorts.I love when a woman is dress properly when going out,female are role model especially if your a mom set example for your kids and other people around you.
Yes when am home alone with my husband i do wear clothes to tease him,how its a holiday an the time is hot an my son is home every day i wear t shirt are a dress.
The clothes we wear tell a story,we are role models.
@gl4d0s (16)
• United States
20 Jul 11
So, some women MAY attract more men because they run around pretty much naked. If it makes them feel better about themselves, fine. Neither them nor the guys in question are worth anything long-term anyway. They can keep each other company. Nothing lost. I generally dress like I'm not trying to attract anything, because I just don't care.
@hailey11 (45)
• Canada
20 Jul 11
i am a woman and i feel that too many women are allowing themselves to dress trashy in order to get a man's attention. i dress in fashionable clothes without showing too much skin. i ffeel women who are revealing appear too desperate and it is NOT a good look.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
20 Jul 11
hand shakeI agree with you.
when a woman is showing too much skin,she is definitely looking for some attention.I love to see female dress properly,woman can wear fashionable clothes an still look attractive.
We are role model,dress with a little pride woman and be a lady.
I agree with you.
when a woman is showing too much skin,she is definitely looking for some attention.I love to see female dress properly,woman can wear fashionable clothes an still look attractive.
We are role model,dress with a little pride woman and be a lady. @alottodo (3056)
• Australia
20 Jul 11
I usually wear what I like...but I also remember[and do]wear for the occasion...every thing has it's place...and every place has it's thing...now when it comes to males I won't fret too much about them...they are a very confused lot any way.
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
20 Jul 11
Daily i can use the formal clothes, i hate jeans. I give importance to comfort. Then i only can wash my clothes and do iron..
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
19 Jul 11
My clothes say that I am very classy, trendy, conservative and playful when I want to be. I am not all there so the world can see as I do not show anything off for others to see. I am more the I wonder what is in side type as oppose to what the exterior says about me. Granted I do love fashion and am in a relationship going on almost 8 years where my boyfriend always compliments my style.
I do wear summer shorts and or bikinis to the beach, but feel I can wear them well. There are some who way over do it and whether or not they get taken serious I suppose it depends on who and or what they are trying to attract. I rarely make comments about what others wear as I do not have to live with them so not really on the opinionated side.
@angie20 (191)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
There are women who dress nicely. Clothes should support your being not vice versa. If a woman is elegant and sensitive in her actions, no matter what she wore, she'll be still respectable. I do believe that clothes do express a lot about the owner but it does not always follow. A woman is quite attractive when she wear modest and presentable clothes based on my opinion. This kind of woman is a woman worth loving and fighting for.
@onlineside (81)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
not all the dress can attract the man even do she is wearing luck of budget for the cloths or she wearing a short because she is short anyway the man will all then to the inside of that woman or the behavior that make him attract the attitude is more important than the dress.
