What should I do with my boyfriend

@cearn25 (3460)
Philippines
July 20, 2011 9:10am CST
Guys! Please help me. I am really irritated with my boyfriend because he keeps on talking about one person, a guy, that he thinks I had a crush over that guy which is not true. One incident when I went out together with my mother, I didn't know that the guy was there. We really had a fight that day also because he knew that the guy was there because I told him. It really made him angry and jealous very much. After that incident, there he starts teasing me about that guy saying that we are boyfriends already, when is our next date, etc. Please advice me. I love him but I don't like the way he is acting right now.
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4 responses
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
Not good and his coping strategy for jealous is terrible. You have got to tell him that honestly he is being childish and he needs to stop what he is doing. If i were in your place... I think I would have punched him in the face.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
30 Apr 12
sorry that wasn't helpful at all.
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
15 May 12
It is okay my friend. No need to say sorry. But you are little agressive. Yah, me too. Seems like I can't help but punch this person who have hurt me. He must put himself in the right place and on the right track. Anyway, thanks for the comment. I do appreciate it a lot.
@Aja103654 (5658)
• Philippines
15 May 12
no problem. yes, I am aggressive when it comes to these things but in real life I can't bring myself to do them because there are a lot of consequences that i would rather not like to suffer. I hope your boyfriend realizes that this behavior is not good and it's not helping your relationship.
@farid01 (137)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 12
sometimes love is confusing, making people laugh can make some people happy sometimes crying hysterically, getting people to be in heaven sometimes feel in hell. after read your story, I have a suggestion to you, about jealousy as a sign that he really loves you, still give him the sense that what he think it was a mistake, no one else is to bring that man to in front of him to explain what really happened
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
Thank you farid01 for your suggestion. I know that he loves me. I know he was just jealous over that guy because of love he has for me. I want to instill to in his mind that the thing between me and that guy is not true. We are good now.
@farid01 (137)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 12
You're good now?? a millions thanks for God, learn to love each other with full sincerity, with complete confidence and trust, perhaps it is commonly called by the people that love is blind, blind to see reality, blind to not understand what actually happens, make your love meaningful my friend
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
24 Apr 12
Yes my friend. I am very thankful for everything to God. I offer everything I do to Him. He is my true Savior. Anyway, I will continue to make this relationship last.
@ashu24 (8)
• India
15 May 12
Well just discuss the matter with him and make him feel for you and your feelings. It will all get sorted out for sure !
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
17 May 12
Eveything has been discussed. Whenever we have problems, we try to discuss the matter and also try to resolve. But that's not easy. Thank you my friend.
@dilrajj57 (1759)
• Pakistan
21 Feb 12
if they both the guys already friend with each other for not some right way, then not good.
@cearn25 (3460)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
I am sorry but they are not friends. But they don't have any fight or what.