Thanks for the response
@sunnystarfish (210)
Philippines
July 21, 2011 7:42am CST
Wow! I am overwhelmed with all the response I got from my previous discussion entitled "I miss him". I've decided not to talk to him anymore because I feel he is not worth it. He does not know how to appreciate me and everything is always about him. What a selfish guy. I don't think our relationship will really work if he stays the same. He doesn't know the meaning of compromise. Well no matter how patient and kind-hearted a person is everything will come to an end. I've had enough. I don't want to stay in a relationship who only cares for himself. The last time we talked he wants to patch things up with me. But he wants me to go to his place. I said to myself I'm not going to his place ever again. If he really wants to patch things up with me then he should be the one to go to my place. Yeah it is something petty but it only shows he is not sincere with things between us. I can't help but ask myself if he really loved me or what.
4 responses
@caterinasmile8 (153)
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23 Jul 11
It's good that you've decided the ball is in his court, and that you have the strenth to walk away and move on if he dosen't make the effort to live by your rules of at least meet you half way. Get out there girl and hunt, or go on an online dating website. Failing that, go and have some time with your girlie friends and also allow yourself a bit of alone time - it will do you the world of good!
@katzar0712 (324)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
good girl! :)
when you end up a relationship, please don't question yourself if you loved or if you were loved... it will only hurt your feelings when you come to negative realizations.
just look at the brighter side.
you met a person, you learned from him.
he met you, he learned from you.
and i hope you find a decent man now that will respect you and love you endlessly. :)
have a great day!
- kat
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
Way to go girl! A person who's really sincere would go out of his way to make you feel special and loved. Judging from what you have said, he's really someone who's not worth it at all.
Find someone who knows how to treat you well and make you feel you are the most important person in this world. I have found one and i'm glad i didn't let him go.
@catof1 (683)
• United States
21 Jul 11
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I had to leave someone I loved but it was very difficult due to abuse. Every time I tried to leave he would find me and stalk me. Hes crazy according to our therapist. It's best to try and move on the best way you can. It will be hard not thinking about him, but keeping your day filled with a lot of things helps a lot. God Bless
