Is it possible for you ?

Yes, i think i can do it. Even if i am the only son of my parents but if if i would face that kind of situation, i will be satisfied in what i have. I don't have a lust of moneys, plots, property. I hate peoples quarreling for properties. I like to live self respected life. These peoples quarreling for properties are always incontented in their lives, so they lose their self respect and their lure of moneys properties always goes on increasing. I feel very bad that in todays world this lure has been reached to its peak and and severals murders are taking place. Crime for this property is ruining todays generation. Murder for dowrys is a worst example of this.

I agree with you...I gave my part to my sisters they need it more than I do...thanks goodness for that!...some one said what about your children? and I said my children are lucky enough...and have the means to build a good future for themselves! and that is what they are doing today!

People are more important than possessions, and our family has not ever fought over inheritances. It is wrong. I understand what you are saying and there are many more blessings from living peacefully than gaining property in a fight.

I also find it hard to understand why some people fight so hard for a piece of property of for some money they're about to inherit when they take nothing with them in the next life;I guess they are blinded by greed and the more material things they have,the more they need,it's a disease which affects their souls.I'm positive that I won't be like them,I will accept whatever I receive and I won't fight for me,after all life is too short to waste it on such arguments instead of enjoying it.

Hello Ms. Rathi, How are you doing? People are objectionably sentimental for wealth and Money. In today's world, money has immense power. As we say, it is "Kalyug" and "In Kalyug if money is not God, It is not less than God." politicians are living for the money and killing for money. millions of people have become and are becoming criminal every second...there is at least one crime for money or wealth every half second. I am very sure, at least every second one person is killed for money. For poor, money is necessity. One cannot pray when his stomach is empty. but it is very good that God had already well arranged for almost everyone. I also think that people living in slums and poor colonies, laborer colonies, beggars, etc. are not 100% criminals. They are still fighting with their conditions and not choosing the wrong path. Personally speaking, it is not possible for me, I can't fight for money. Actually, I do not want to fight for money with family members. Even if it my own property...for ancestral property or wealth, they say, it makes people lazy and useless. A few days ago, in Rajasthan, a women was killed by his husband's brother and his wife for property conflicts. Now both the husband and wife will enjoy in central jail.. greed for money destroyed their conscience. Definitely they were happy outside the jail. Even imprisonment will not give them that property after many years. Some people lose ethics against money's power. It is not good to fight for property or wealth. Ancestral property is not even ours. Rich men think money is a boost to their progress. Even corporates, industries, companies, and business like hotels are fighting for property. You must be knowing Maharani Gayatri Devi of Jaipur. Even, she is also bothered for property issues by a five-star Hotel Ram Bagh Palace, Jaipur. Both are fighting for Lilipool. http://www.bhaskar.com/article/RAJ-JAI-would-gayatri-devi-had-been-renter-in-lilipool-2289084.html?OF25= anyways, it is impossible for me to fight for property (and that is also ancestral), with family members. If there will be such conditions I would quit my share of property...[b]where it is going? it is still with my family... [/b] and that is enough. What I will need, I can earn by the grace of God.

I hardly think I would want something that is not mine. I think if a parent wants to leave something to your child he will leave if not why not just deal with these things. At least that's my opinion. Have a nice day!

The love of money is the root of all evil. Surely many people put so much trust and love for wealth and they can even die for it. Too much love for money resulted into greediness which can destroy relationship. This is the reason why even siblings fight among each other over inheritance and even the best of friends separate over money dispute. Well, these money lovers should realize that we brought nothing in the world and we ca not carry anything when we leave this world. Money is not bad. We need this for our daily survival but too much love for it is evil and the root of all.

Well surekha... Neither i know how much deposit my father has nor how much policies. I am an established guy and dont give any importance to father's property as i will gain it legally as i am the only boy from my parents. it often happens when there are more than one sibling and quarrel takes place. My sister will not ask for something, i have complete trust on her. have a nice day.

dear sis, My parents had given my siblings some share of our ancestors property,but I was not yet given mine (my share) And I don't have problem with it,thu I know our parents property will be divided equally in due time. Right now,I never think of it,I cannot bring those property in my grave anyway,so...why fight for it. I am never a materialistic person,I live a simple life and I am happy with this kind of life. As long as my kids are healthy I am thankful to God for this and everything that I own at present. Happy Monday dear

I am lucky enough to have a home of my own with my husband and for that reason I really can't see myself ever fighting with my parents over her property. She is the mother of three children and I already know that everything that she has is to be split evenly between my siblings and myself whenever something does happen to her. There is no reason at all that I think there should be any fights over those things that belong to her after she is gone.

Yeah, when it comes to property and money it could get to that. I even know a family that got broken because of money wars. Solid relationships can be broken because of money alone. I'm not saying every solid relationship can be broken by it, only some. I think that's also why people blame money, because of this reason.

Because people are greedy, that is why they demands more and more, and they won't even care about whether they are fighting with their parents, or brothers or sisters. That is the problem with our human nature. I couldn't even trust my friend too, who also a bad person recently I discovered. So, we have to see clear on this reality world.

HI Surekha! I will not let myself to get involve in such situation. If nothing left for me it is fine. When one knows how to find money by his/her own I don't think she/he should rely on other people wealth. I know that some of my siblings are really into money for this and that things they need to settle. Even if the head of the family is still alive they already said they have rights on his money and property just because they need to settle their problems and debts. Greedy people will always try to find easy way to escaped themselves and the most easy way is through parents. It is sad that they argue for things that still belongs to someone and that person is still alive. Bad children?? Yes, they are bad children who wants to escaped from problems they themselves made.

My dad pass away a few months ago and I feel that war for inheritance among my brothers(I have 3 brother and 1 sister) is about to begin. I don't like it at all and if they asked to join their sides, I will refused and even they asked to give my right, I will give it to them .... no question be ask. Why? For me, life not just for money but brotherhood and friendships are much much more important.

I know what you mean. Competition of properties often arise when the siblings, is insufficient of money. Anyway I won't ask for more. All I need is love and lots of love between family, friends and siblings. That will make my life happier.

Many are running after the wealth and some are satisfied with what they have. Everyone knew we are all short lived.Now, in India we are witnessing greedy people behind the bars.In my family we did not have much property and also we have not fought for it also.It was totally used for the family expenditure with the satisfaction of every one of my family members.

hello surekha, We have properties but ever since I told my parents not to worry me my sister can always have the bigger part and it's not a problem. Besides it's too early for me to get my share I know that they will divide it equally if ever having one sibling I can sacrifice so she can have a better future. Only greedy person will take advantages and talk to much about this matter Happy mylotting

Hello surekha, Its true even when people also have enough money they try to gather it from here & there it looks as if the lust of money never ends in human beings.Though everybody knows that this money,property no one is going to take with themselves still the hunger don't lessened up. I have seen people who always fight for their father/mother pension,parental property but they never understand in that case they fight with their brother or sister which i feel is bad.