third chance might happen.

Philippines
July 25, 2011 5:36am CST
I have a friend very close to me who is having a problem with her boyfriend, she caught her boyfriend cheating on her that makes her really down, she was like crying all day, she feels very helpless and abuse. My friend love this guy so much and she gave a second chance to his boyfriend saying that he will never do that again to her. But now she is having a feeling that things might happen again, her boyfriend keeps telling her to trust him, that she loves her so much. What do you think is the best thing to do? I wanted to help my friend.
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6 responses
@nurseclare (2210)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
That's really hard for your friend because some girls are really martyr and will do everything just to have the man she loves even if it broke her whole life. All you have to do is to pray for her because if she loves him so much then he can't let go of her boyfriend. Just be a good friend and always say a prayer for her. :)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
thank you so much nurseclare. I will always be there for my friend. I just hope this guy will really change.
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
You're welcome..I hope he will..you're so nice to your friend. :)
25 Jul 11
If he's done it once, what's to stop him doing it again? My motto is "never go back". Move on to someone better. Nobody deserves a scumbag who cheats on them.
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
Thanks for the advice. This might be the best thing to do, I will tell her that and make that guy realize what he just lost.
• United States
25 Jul 11
I would normally say mind your own business aand stay out of it. But,if she comes to you and asks you for advice tell her to read the poem called (a womans worth) after that tell her that no woman should remain with a man who cheats on her she deserves better in life. The same way he took his clothes down to sleep with her is the same way he will do it again. I do believe a man can change. But,with hiv and aids I think the risk of it is not worth staying. he may just hide the affair better.
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
I know my limitation for this. I always wanted that to tell her but I just cant stand seeing her so much in pain, she was just confuse right now about her trust to that guy. thanks anyway, I will read that poem and tell that to her. Thank you so much.
@zerd87 (301)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
That's a very hard situation. Well for me I could advise the girl to broke up with her bf. I don't believe him anyway. If he really love your friend he will not do that. If your friend give him another chance I'm sure of it that it will happen again. It goes to the feeling just being tolerable to the situation. Just make him suffer and teach him a good reason.
@xuyxuy (435)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Hi, I know it's hard to see a friend who's hurting because of unfaithful boyfriend. I guess, as a friend be a good listener to her, comfort her and be always ready if she needs somebody to talk to. It's really hard to trust somebody who had caused you a lot of pain. It's easy to forget the pain but its hard to build the trust again. So bear with your friends feelings as of the moment.
@jaiho2009 (39079)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
If she want to trust her boyfriend again,she should trust her fully. Now,if she caught her boyfriend cheating again,that's the time she should made the right decision whether to give him another chance or not. In any relationship,there is always trouble/trials and betrayal is not an exception. She needs to be strong or else,their relationship won't work good just like before.