wrong side of the bed?

July 26, 2011 5:52am CST
what is it with people being grumpy? like actually? is it just me, or can some people wake up in the most foul of moods? my partner is not a morning person, she never has been.. wheras i can just get up, get out of bed and get ready and go, it's more late in the evening when i start to get tired that i would be more grumpy.. but shes like a bear in the mornings. which is usually fine. i just deal with it. every morning when i get up shes usually still sleeping. she will stir when i'm moving about the room getting ready. but the first contact i generally have with her is when i'm kissing her goodbye. she can be a bit grumpy but i'm usually out the door asap lol! well this morning she was just foul, completely and utterly, and i felt like hitting her a big boot and telling her to wise up! she didn't feel well so of course everything was my fault. she couldn't be bothered getting up, she didn't want to go to the bank, she didn't want our friend to call at the house to pick something up.. and i was the worst person in the world for even suggesting such a thing! and to make matters even worse, she refuses to apologise, because i raised my voice!! seriously!! ugh.. does anyone elses partners wake up on the wrong side of the bed? and how do you handle it?
2 responses
@Orson_Kart (4353)
• United Kingdom
26 Jul 11
My advice is to shove 'the wrong side of the bed' up against the wall. That way your partner can only get out on the right side, which, if it's your side means it could be a bit of fun clambering over you to get out.
26 Jul 11
lol, i like your style! .. although i think if she had to clamber over me, giving her already foul mood, it may make her even more foul?
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• United Kingdom
26 Jul 11
Alrighty then! You sleep next to the wall and then you can push miss grumps out without the need for clambering. I think I was putting myself in your place and got confused as to what I would do, which is of course, keep on your right side.
27 Jul 11
hahaha!! charmer!!
• United States
26 Jul 11
My partner is fine when he gets up in the morning. It's me you gotta watch out for! Lol I'm not mean or anything I just got to have my coffee before you start a conversation with me! Sometimes my hubby wants to have a full on talk and I'm like woah!!! Hold on a sec! Brain needs coffee before I can comprehend everything your saying! Lol.! Maybe your partner needs some coffee too!
26 Jul 11
she doesn't like coffee!! so she can't even use that as an excuse lol! shes just a meany head lol! .. i do need my coffee myself but its more for actually functioning rather than being moody lol!
• United States
26 Jul 11
What a bummer! I'd hate if my morning started crappy because mornings usually set the tone for the rest of the day!
26 Jul 11
lol well shes in for a bumpy ride when i get home for starting my day off crappy! lol!