I am missing her

India
July 30, 2011 12:17pm CST
My dear my lotter friends you know one mylotter member is not active here since last week. You know the name of that person very well. I am missing her very much. Her discussions, responses, comments, fun all. I think she is also miss me. I know she is so far but not from my heart. Do you feel like this for any mylot friend who is not active but your good friend and you remember that very much. His/her fun discussion etc. Share your views I am alone feel this or you are with me.
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16 responses
@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
31 Jul 11
Hahaha i know you are talking about HWG as she is away from MYLOT for 3 weeks as she is going somewhere. Yes she is great as she always is found on almost every discussion with some meaningful responses. I always love to read her responses. Yes sometime we miss our friend so much that even a day looks like a year without him/her. May she will be back soon with the some gifts for us.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 Jul 11
Of course she will bring us gifts! She will fill the pages with new topics telling us all about what she did while she was away, giving us the chance to participate in them
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• United States
10 Aug 11
I am here with the gift of my presence, lol I do have a few discussions I am planning but as usual I prefer to respond to others more so then my own. Who knows I might just turn a new leaf someday, lol
• India
31 Jul 11
Haaha dear friend sjvj Finally you guess who is she? Yes I miss her and I am waiting when she will came back and tell where she goes and she also miss us or not. I know she will bring some gifts but I wants only her presence here and this is the best gift for me. I think jaiho sis is also not active here since last 3 days. No discussion no responses. how is she? @ my dear friend mys yes she will fill the pages with her new ideas and gives us responses on our discussion in good manner. I think there is no net otherwise she will login at least once in a day.
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• United States
10 Aug 11
My dear friend I went through the entire discussion and can see how wonderful and caring many Lotters are. It is truly like a family here where we all share so much and feel the disappearance of so many from time to time. While away I did not have internet and was not able to myLot, email and or communicate with any friends. I thought of you and so many often and hoped everyone was doing fine. I am happy upon my return to see that several are doing great and still enjoying the site. Such a great feeling to be part of myLot amongst wonderful friends like you and so many.
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• India
11 Aug 11
Yes my dear friend I also feel that mylot like a family and all mylotters is family members and only one person you is not here then how many persons were missing you. When I sent you a email and not reply you then I understand net is not with you. Then I decided to start this discussion because I was missing you so much. I not show the name because I want to see who can guess. When I saw the mylotter are gussed who is she then I feel so happy wow my discussion is good.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 Jul 11
MyLot is different without her bouncing all over the discussions with her golden hair dancing She reached her destination but is without an internet connection and cannot be with us until she gets one. There are other friends missing now too and it is indeed different here without them. Hopefully soon they will all be back like before and we will have their topics to join in with too
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 Jul 11
Well, ok, it's red but her presence is gold here
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 11
I hope the other friends will all be back like before too~ There is no other way for me to contact them except through this site~
• India
31 Jul 11
Hmmm You are right yes I missing her dancing friend. Nice friend our thought is same. But I not observed her hair is golden hahahbut yes she is dancing girl. I know more friends are missing her. Thanks to support me.
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@shibham (16977)
• India
31 Jul 11
Hi surekha.. You know i am slow member here from last three years and i really miss my old friends who are inactive here from years like msfrancisco, ckyera, acie, sanjana, chrysan, jenny, kitty, oyenkai, christana, fjaril, koala, kompita, med, lovelyn, coco, thea, suggar, xanne, yolanda and many more ( sorry my old friends if you are not here, cant remember at now ).... I hope they will come here one day and share your views with us and we will be in fun even better. have a nice day.
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• India
31 Jul 11
Ohhh friend you memory is strong than me you also remember lots of mylotter friends name wow good. But tell me if for one week I will not here then you will miss me or not. See my profile photo with my sweet heart.
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@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
30 Jul 11
Hello, Surekharathi. I have been friends with a couple of Mylotter here, too close even that though I have not met them in person yet, I feel the connection and had somehow shared a genuine friendship with them. I do not miss anyone here from Mylot because none of my friends here has become inactive. On the contrary, it was me who was not able to post or comment here for a couple of months. I do not know if anyone misses me , too. ;-) Your friend is lucky that you have thought of her even is she is no longer communicating with you.:-) It is just a natural feeling when you have developed a certain feeling of fondness for a particular person, especially if that person has been too kind to you and inspired you to do better.
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• India
30 Jul 11
Call me only surekha my friend no problem because rathi is my surname. Friend I am missing her because she tell me in one responses surekha I am going out of for 3 weeks. I dont know her previous we meet only in mylot but really I remember all mylotter friends. Like I provides everyone quality in my discussion sunday special observation. I am lucky so I missed her. Thanks for your response
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
3 Aug 11
Though there are some members of mylot that I have developed a fairly good relationship with, I don't really miss most people when they aren't here for a while. The reason for that is because of the fact that I cannot personally spend as much time here as I used to spend on mylot a few months ago. With that said, I do wonder what people are up to when they aren't present on the site for a little while.
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• India
3 Aug 11
Friend whenever I read your response I seen your photo first and then give my comment because I like your smile. But please dont change your profile photo because here a friend Simplyed her smile was also good and I tell her about it then she changed her profile photo. You are right here some members really developed good relationship and if they are not active then their friends missed them. I also missing my one friend HWG because she not her since last week. Thanks to share your view.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
31 Jul 11
Hi Surekharathi. Sure I miss it when a friend is missing. I keep them in my prayers that they are safe and are doing what is important to them. One of my best friends here on my lot got banned and it really hurt my feelings when that happened. Don't know if I will ever get over that. But thank God I gave her my email address before she got banned.
• India
31 Jul 11
Ohh no really this is happen with really you are lucky you have the email of your friend. Really some time we feel attachment with online friend also even we not meet or not see to each other. Thanks to share your view.
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@free_man (7330)
• United States
31 Jul 11
Hi Surekharathi. Yes it is really nice being able to still chat with her online. Never met her but she is a really good friend. Hope some day I will be able to meet her face to face.
@topffer (42156)
• France
30 Jul 11
MyLot is really a great community : I was not very active this month and I have received several PM and emails asking me if everything was alright, etc. It is in these moments that we realize that we have true friends at myLot. When somebody is absent, something lacks in a discussion. I have at myLot a handful of friends that I would like to meet in real word. It is what makes myLot so attractive.
• India
3 Aug 11
Wow then give me your email next time if you will not active here then I will also received my mail where are you dear friend? come back soon I am waiting to your response on my discussion and missing you. Really mylot friends are good than offline friends. Thanks to share your view.
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@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
30 Jul 11
Don't worry that sis will come back again in a few days~ Hope she is doing well there!!Everyone is missing her too~(^^)
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 11
Yes, I still remember back to those days when you struggled with so many problems with this and other site. She is a good mentor and she did a good job guiding you to do well in Mylot. Now you are already one of the good mylotter and she did an excellent job in advising and mentoring others. She did give me many tips too and I really appreciate that!(^^)
• United States
10 Aug 11
Awwh how sweet of you both. I was helped by mysdianait, many times in my early membership, and still to date; that I try to pay it forward. It is such a thrill to see so many successful Lotters here. Same things she said while guiding me that I see now after helping others is such a wonderful feeling.
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• India
31 Jul 11
Dear Sis, Yes I know she will come back soon. She is my best friend she appreciate me when I want to leave the mylot because I was not understanding how work on mylot initially and I earned only 5 cent in whole month. But in one discussion she tell all procedure of responding, discussion, comment. I think jaiho sis is not here since last 3 to 4 days where she is. I really miss all my friends if they are not seen in mylot for somedays. I will miss you also so whenever you will go then please tell me.
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
There's one friend close to me and we call each other best friends. He's been busy lately but though he doesn't post here or respond, we still do keep in touch using Skype. There's one friend that I suddenly remember that has been missing fir quite a few weeks already. I winder how she's doing and what's keeping her busy.
• India
1 Aug 11
Yes friend we also call to each other best friend. I think where my friend is gone no net connection. But I am waiting her and I know she will came back and write something new experience.
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
30 Jul 11
I feel like that sometimes. There are some MyLot friends that I have that I do not see sometimes for days. But, they all have lives and things going on in their lives. I always wish everyone the best. But, I am sure, whoever you are missing, will be back.
• India
31 Jul 11
Yes sir I am waiting her and I know she will came back as early as possible. Really all mylotter friends are good and if one is inactive I will remember them.
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• Philippines
31 Jul 11
hello surekha, I do miss some mylotters too.... I am thinking and worried what could be the reason why he/she is not coming here There are times I tried along with other mylotter to reach them out so we can find out the reasons of their absence. For sure she misses you too..... happy mylotting
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
31 Jul 11
She did tell us that she would be absent for three weeks. One has gone and two to go and then she will be back again
• India
3 Aug 11
I m also missing her.I like to read her discussions coz they all are very interesting and I gor many new things from her...
• India
3 Aug 11
Thanks to support me standing with me for her and telling this you are also remember her I am waiting when she will came back here.
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@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
31 Jul 11
wow, thats very sweet of you. And she is lucky. I wonder if someone would even notice if I disappear at ly lot... Dont worry, she said she'll be back ,and in no time, she'll be back my lotting again, we have to accept the fact that outside mylot, we are different individuals and sometimes we just have more important things to deal with.
• India
31 Jul 11
Friend I will miss you also if you will not seen me for one week. But now I am really missing her very much and my eyes are waiting her when she will came and join mylot.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
17 Aug 11
I also missed one members of MyLot. I've met him, the meeting is quite thrilling. Because we meet without telling, our respective husbands. We have a similar problem. I helped him by giving him the phone to be always active in MyLot. But already a few months, he was never active. I do not know how I contacted him. I've sent a message through MyLot, but not yet received a reply. Perhaps, she was caught by her husband when logged in MyLot. I am very concerned about the situation.
• India
21 Aug 11
Missing someone is really great ..yes we are with u buddy...how could u frel alone dear ..you are missing her then how u feeling alone..u have her thoughts and everyrhing feel her and dont be sad ...