should you do any job or wait for a job u love?

@vegegirl (828)
Australia
August 4, 2011 11:07am CST
I lost my job a year ago because of the economic downturn and haven't got a new job yet. It is the first time I have been out of work in about 14 years. Do you think I should apply for jobs that I didn't really want, just to get a job? Or should I wait for a job I would like - let's face it you have to go there most days of the week and if you hate your job you won't enjoy a lot of your life. I am running out of savings though.
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@peavey (16936)
• United States
4 Aug 11
What happens when you run out of savings and you haven't found a job that you really want? Why hold out? Why not get a job and make enough money to get you through? You can always look for that "perfect job" while you're working at something else.
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
15 Aug 11
I left a good job once, one which I really enjoyed, to move someplace else. After I got here, I couldn't find another job just like it. I also had to make a choice of whether to wait, or just get any job in the meantime. I chose the latter. Although it took a while, and it took a circuitous route, I ended up in the job that I wanted. So, my advice is: take whatever job. Because if it is really meant to be, you'll end up in the job that you love. In the meantime, earn a living while waiting. And use the hate-on of the current job as motivation to get 'the' job.
@vegegirl (828)
• Australia
16 Aug 11
Thanks bounce, I am applying for jobs, and I don't really want to go to a lot of them all week, but I am applying for them anyway. Unfortunately I haven't been successful in any of them.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 Aug 11
Hang in there, you'll get one soon!
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
10 Aug 11
Hello vege and welcome to myLot. The consensus so far is t hat you take what ever job you can find and keep looking for what you want. Something else you might do is look at your qualifications and possibly up date them. Things keep changing so fast that your qualifications you had when you got 14 years might not make you qualified today. Something else you might consider is get a professional to up date your resume. You could also do some community work. It would look good on a resume.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
10 Aug 11
another thing is you might make some good contacts.
4 Aug 11
I'd go for any job, except things I know I'd hate. I've had SO many different jobs in the past and I've come out of every one better off. You might be surprised what you learn, who you meet or what positive experience you can get - it'll also help get you back into the working rhythm after a year off. Just make sure they're jobs you can leave quickly, for when the right one comes along.
@vegegirl (828)
• Australia
4 Aug 11
I've done many jobs in the past as well. I worry about getting bogged down in a low paying job and not having the energy to apply for other jobs at the same time. Once you start working 9-5 (or longer) a good part of the day goes by the time you cook tea etc and then you often don't feel like doing job applications. I know people often say it is easier to get a job when you have one already, but it is amazing how many people who have jobs can't be bothered applying for a better job.
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4 Aug 11
Part-time is the answer. Or voluntary. Or win the lottery.
@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
5 Aug 11
Hi vegegirl! According to your situation it is better for you to get a job as soon as possible regardless any kind of good job. You can either apply for a permanent or part-time job. It is crucial for you to have a job right now. If you think that you will not like the job go for a part time job so at least you still have some money to survive.(^^)
@vegegirl (828)
• Australia
6 Aug 11
Thanks, there are a couple of jobs I can apply for this weekend. This doesn't necessarily mean I will be successful in getting the jobs!
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@CTHanum (8234)
• Malaysia
6 Aug 11
At least you already try to apply the job. Don't worry I hope you can get one as soon as possible!(^^)
@veganbliss (3895)
• Adelaide, Australia
12 Aug 11
Hmm... tricky situation! I've also been working full time for just over fourteen years. It sounds like a cash-flow problem, but you can turn it into a situation you can benefit from. I've been renovating my house for the past couple of years & plan to sell, downsize & live off the passive interest from the savings, which is very easy to do for a vegan who can grow their own veggies. Property prices in Queensland hit rock-bottom a short time ago. Down here, you can get a new house & land package in the suburbs for well under $100k & I can sell this one for about $300k. You might like to keep an eye on the market & see if you can do the same! That would free up some money for you & you may never need to feel pressured to work again!
@vegegirl (828)
• Australia
12 Aug 11
Good thinking. I have a mortgage on a cottage that needs renovation in Victoria in the stoney rises. I had hoped it would have been fixed up by now, but I had unforseen electricity problems and it became a bit of a money pit. So I have been thinking of spending the rest of my money to fix that one up and sell it - I am not sure how long it will take to sell, then i can pay off my flat up north and fix it up. I will have less expenses and could afford to work part time after that. I just worry if I fix the house up down south, then not be able to sell it, then I will have no money. It is a shame I have to sell the cottage as it is on a hectare and has been subdivided, so one day someone could even build on one of the blocks - but because it is in the stoney rises It may be hard to build on. It has lots of potential, some polished wooden floors and a fireplace and is cute on the outside.
• Adelaide, Australia
13 Aug 11
Goodness! That's a situation that can be turned around. I'll cut off my gas in a few months from now & be fully off the electricity grid by this time next year. No - it has nothing whatsoever to do with solar power! I renovated my place on a tight budget, but it took a long, long time to do - much longer than I initially thought & with each step, it just took longer & longer. Patience is the key, but you will need to get some cash-flow from somewhere fast. I still work full-time, but I get a fair bit from my online earnings as well as other activities offline. Hope it works out for you.
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
Well it depends on your situation. You've mentioned that you are running out of savings, if you are living on your own meaning paying all the bills and buying all the stuffs for yourself then might as well get a job even if it is not your dream job. You can still look for the job you want while still engaged in another. This is just to avoid running out of money and living in debt. If you are living with your parents then I think it is okay to wait for the job you want. You can live even if you are not working if someone is supporting you. Just try some side business for the moment so that you don't need to depend on them for all your expenses.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
7 Aug 11
With the economy the way it is? I wouldn't wait for a job I like, but rather take any job I can get. Because at this point if you decide to wait, you could wind up with no job at all. And chances are, the longer you wait, the harder it's going to get. Personally speaking, I didn't wait. I applied to pretty much anything that was out there. Good thing I did too, because otherwise I'd still be unemployed (I know, because I'm still looking). I may not have a job that I love, but at least I'm earning money for my family...even if it isn't much. Happy mylotting!
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
4 Aug 11
When I was 18 to 20 years old I worked as a container marketing controller for a shipping company. A recession hit my home country and it was shocking that lots of people got made redundant. It was very upsetting when I was also made redundant. I wrote to lots of other shiping companies and applied for admin plus shop jobs. I got a few interviews but there were always better condidates than me it seemed. I had bought my cottage when I was 19 years old and so using up my savings was scary. A new job didn't come along and this was frightening. I came up with a plan. So I let out my cottage to get a monthly income, got a working holiday holiday visa for Australia and bought an airline ticket around the world. I traveled for just over one year and had an excellent time. When I came home I did temporary work: for a bank and for an insurance company. I did part time studying to upgrade my qualifications. I then was able to get into university to study Education and English Literature. I was then able to become a primary school teacher. I advise moving to get a job that is suitable for taking any job until what you want comes along. Traveling overseas was much better than being unemployed. Then studying let me get a career in something I love doing. I did some children's nannying in Australia and this let me think about training to become a teacher. Good luck.
@vegegirl (828)
• Australia
7 Aug 11
Thanks - I have already done that once, stopped working and studied as a mature age student and got a degree. I don't know if I want to do that again as I am a bit older now and have a mortgage.
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
10 Aug 11
Any job is better than no job! In this economy, everyone is looking for work and you should take what you can get. If you are running out of savings, it is definitely time to take a "survival" job. It might not be something you want to do, but if you want to survive, you have to do it! If it is something you don't enjoy, then find an activity to be involved in that you do enjoy. I know when I worked in a mail room, I hated the job but it paid most of the bills. I did have to take a second job to make ends meet, but I really enjoyed that one and the volunteer work I did on top of that made the full time job I hated tolerable. Good luck!
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
7 Aug 11
In your situation I would take a job that I didn't really want. The job might be boring and I might not enjoy it, but I would feel a lot better if I knew that I had enough money to pay my bills. In the past I have applied for jobs that weren't very interesting or challenging. I have cleaned toilets, done dishes, delived newspapers and a lot of other things. I can't say that I enjoyed those jobs, but I had bills to pay and I had to take any job that I could get. When I found something better I gave up those job, but I definately don't regret taking those jobs, because they helped me get through the bad periods.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
4 Aug 11
I think if you have get any job and you think that is not your type job then I want to say don’t left it and join your job because there is nothing you find if you are in not any job and you can also find any good job to join after this current jobs. Because if you have no any jobs in your hand then you may feel very frustrated and also there its possible shortage of jobs in future. So don’t waste time and join this job which is in your hand.
@vegegirl (828)
• Australia
4 Aug 11
sometimes it seems like a reall catch 22. If you don't have a job you have no income and it looks bad on your resume if you don't work for a long time. If you get a job for a short time and then move on to another job this also looks bad on your resume as people say you didn't hold the job down for very long!
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@naija4real (1291)
5 Aug 11
You should look for a job as quickly as possible even though you might get a job that is out of your real desire. At least, it will give you money to sustain yourself pending when you eventually get the dream job. I think 90 per cent of applicant in the world today do not really get their dream job at first attempt. They have to make do with what is available just to sustain themselves and their family.
@koperty3 (1876)
4 Aug 11
If you run out of the savings so you should accept job even if this is not your dream job. In the mean time you can look for something better but I stink financial stabilisation is better than waiting for something you don't know when it come. Of course it's better when you love your job. But sometimes we have to force our self to do things we don't want to for our safe future. Good luck with that!
@vegegirl (828)
• Australia
12 Aug 11
Yes, I thought I would do some casual work initially. The first casual job I applied for, which I thought I was exactly qualified for and it should be easier to get a casual job as people wouldn't want to leave a full time job to take a casual job - I didn't even make the short list for it.
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
5 Aug 11
Hey vegegirl if I need the money I would go for anything! after all I came to this country in 1973 and I had my diplomas and what ever! that was required by the government at the time! ....but guess what!I had to work in a filthy factory where male did not work at all...but...female did the job and males sat there and had a good laugh about it! I have cleaned toillettes and more sh**T than you can think and you want to wait for the job you love?
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
Hi. If it's me, I would do any job because I need the money but if opportunity comes and there's an opening of a job I like then I'll grab the chance. Good luck, I hope you find the right job soon.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
So you see, you are running out of savings already. Imagine wasting a year because there is no job available to your liking. It would have been better that you get a job first , even if it's not what you really want. What is important, is that you will have money to sustain your needs without draining your savings. While on that job, you could look for your ideal job.
@minimoyz (277)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
You better find a job because with the condition you're in not until you find a job that suits you better. Try online jobs maybe it will help. Try oDesk or Vworker it really pays big money just select a category that you're good at then maybe you won't need to go out and find a job.
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
It depends on your need. Are you married ? I think if you are starting to run out of savings, then you should get a job that suits you. I mean a job that will accept you to work. There are lots of jobs out there but the problem is sometimes we choose so much and wait... The best job wont come to us, how can you know if one job wont make you happy without trying? Everything is worth a try.
@lydiab (33)
• United States
5 Aug 11
I agree with the others you should take what you can find now. It does not mean you are stuck there. Having a job will give you some income to keep up with your bills while you keep seeking the employment you really want. Right now the gratitude is in getting something to survive many are not even being able to do that.