I found her on facebook and linkedin again

United States
August 4, 2011 9:34pm CST
There was a girl that work in my place long ago, and I had to admit it, I had crush on her when I first saw her, but with many factors and reasons, I was afraid to come forward to her. As matter of fact, I don't have strong self - esteem, and most likely, she will reject me as I predicted. One day, she was no longer working there, and I was disappointed. Today, while I was browsing facebook, there is a possible friend list options on my profile page, and her photos was the first one pop up. I immediately check on her info, and found out that she already has a new job in another company. I tried to connect her in linkedin. Hopefully she will accept my request. Although I still afraid to confess my love to her, I still want to be friend with her though. Did I do it wrong?
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9 responses
5 Aug 11
i think theres nothing wrong on what you did, but i hope next time you'll find the courage to tell her that you like her, but of course that is if shes still single, but if not just leave your admiration a secret, well goodluck then:)
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@youless (92961)
• Guangzhou, China
5 Aug 11
This can be a very romantic love story and I wish you all the best! There are quite a lot of people online and it is the destiny that you met her again. Isn't it amazing? You are a man and you shall be brave. Don't miss the chance again. I love China
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• Philippines
5 Aug 11
i hope she will accept your friendship request. i understand you since i am also experiencing what you had experience. i had this girl in my school and she is will eventually graduate this year. i really like her but i am afraid to come to her because she is really beautiful and i am afraid to be rejected. i'm thinking that if i will not make a move, surely i will lose her since she will graduate this year. but i was conquered by my fear, i am afraid to show my feelings for her. you are doing right, make use of every opportunities.
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@varier (5699)
• Indonesia
5 Aug 11
There's nothing wrong with loving someone :). Well, maybe there's a little exception if either you or your crush have already married :P And I suggest you to confess love to her, before it is all too late. As for me, I prefer being rejected than not knowing her feeling toward me at all. But, yes, it is your choice of life, I think you know what works best for you :) Good luck, then. Hope she'll accept your friend request :)
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@meticulo (1286)
• United States
5 Aug 11
Hi there kingparker! You met her before and lost her. Then you found her in facebook. I guess there's a reason why you see her again. If you really like her you would do everything to be in touch with her. Don't be afraid to tell her what you feel. Express yourself. There's no harm and penalty for trying.If she ever turn you down at least you've tried but as long as she'll give you hope don't stop. Keep movin'! Keep the faith! Good luck!
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@voracious (624)
• Philippines
6 Aug 11
There's nothing wrong to confess your love to her who knows maybe she might like you and she's only waiting for you to approach her, just do your best.
@stephcjh (32327)
• United States
6 Aug 11
I hope she accepts your friendship request. Maybe you can talk to her sometime and you can tell her how you feel about her.
• Philippines
5 Aug 11
Are you sure you love her, just not infatuated with her? Well, I do hope you the best of luck in this endeavor. You've done nothing wrong. She knows you, you know her so why wouldn't she add you? The only question that remains is will you be able to talk to her or meet up with her once she accepts your request at linkedin. I think that's what you should be planning for. How do you get her to go out with you. I do wish you the best of luck!
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
5 Aug 11
After reading this post I realized that you are in love with that girl. And it is not bad that you are in love. Because it is good when we loved someone. And when this feeling comes in our heart then we feel good. So I think you may add her and also show her that what you think about her. Because if you loved her so it is important to show this to her.