A Mother's Love - in Jaiho's eyes

unceasing love of a mother - mother's unceasing love
@jaiho2009 (39021)
Philippines
August 11, 2011 3:36am CST
What do you know and understand about unceasingly love? Is it the same as unconditional love or no? If those words do not mean the same then what’s the difference between the two? Unceasing love has no boundaries and knows no limitation and doesn’t know what does goodbye means. It keeps going on without acknowledgment from the other person or any one concerning the matter. It never shows any anger or disappointment, never feels bad and no ill feelings. A mother’s love is one great example of an unceasingly love that doesn’t know the word “fed-up or sickening”. A mother, whose love is supreme to all kinds of love in this world, is neither greed nor selfish. Did you ever come to know a mother who forgot the child once she beared in her womb and carried for 9 months? Does any mother ever forget the child she is carrying with? Or for being in distress, she turns her back from any responsibility of being a mother - known as the best and the noblest role in this world. No, we can never find a mother neglecting care for her children as we know how much she suffers for leaving her child under other people’s care. It could be her family or relatives with whom she leaves her kids to be taken care of. May be, she had her child got adopted or stayed in any institution to be cared of while she is away, or might be she decides not to let her child suffer the cruelty of her meaningless life. A mother who felt the pain of labor when giving birth will never forget her child wherever she is and whatever she does. So, who, do you think, can give the real meaning to unceasing love more than a mother who risks her life when giving birth? We can easily judge a mother for all the sacrifices and risks to her life. But we never judge a father when he abandons his family, and people in and society blame and point their fingers to a mother who gives, on her free will, and surrenders her freedom for the sake of her family, husband and kids. This is the naked truth that we often ignore and neglect when understanding a woman, a mother, whose love is betrayed and rejected. Now, who can stand and define what is unceasing love different from God’s love to HIS creation and this humankind. just sharing my views/feeling/.... have a good day dear mylotters jaiho® 8/11/2011 4:35pm PT (Thursday)
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11 responses
• Mexico
14 Aug 11
Hi jaiho: Thanks for sharing with us this very interesting reflection. I must say I agree with you and i just want to add that to be a mother is more than the biological process of giving birth a child. I have known about some women that abandon their children or leave them and don't care about them and their future but in almost all of the cases, mothers are the symbol of unceasingly love. Their sacrifices and their love can't be compared. I feel glad and I thank God for my mom. ALVARO
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
14 Aug 11
hello Alvaro, Who can understand us better and love us more than a mother . There are few mothers who have done mistakes..but I am sure the motherhood within them is still there. I am sure there's a time when they can remember the child that they bore and feel bad for whatever they've done. thanks for your response and have a good day jaiho®
@surekharathi (14134)
• India
12 Aug 11
Yes dear sis mother's love is unconditional love for her child even child may be done any wrong behaviour(like for property, for wife) with mother but mother cant do that. Mother always scarifies for her child but child never ready for it.
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
dear sis, Yes, a mother will always a be mother no matter how bad her kid is. As one mylotter wrote that- sometimes kids behaves bad but mothers will never feel bad/upset and will stay as mother as she is. have a great weekend dear jaiho®
@myfb2009 (8304)
• Malaysia
12 Aug 11
Mother's love is the most wonderful love in this world. Everyone of us should appreciate with the love that we are getting from our parents especially from our mother. She willing to suffered and sacrifice for the well-being of us when we are small. It is a pity that not everyone is appreciating the love that they are getting from their parents especially from their mother. It is always important to appreciate this mother's love nor matter we are rich or poor.
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
hello myfb, That's what I tried to figure out with this article...no matter what, a mother will always be a mother. Like the other mylotter wrote that he knows a certain mother who made her son's life miserable....I will try to write another article for that...hope soon. Thanks for your input and have a good day jaiho®
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
11 Aug 11
Great words from you sis! Even if there are mothers who kills and murder their own babies btu most of them are as great as what you mentioned above. They are truly great mother. No matter what happen to their children they will always stand by their side.(^^)
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
dear sis, Thanks a lot for the appreciation and you are right,thu some mother's esp the unwed ones and teenagers done some mistakes I am sure deep within their hearts they fet remorse for doing so. A mother will always be a mother. have a good day jaiho®
• China
11 Aug 11
i'm moved by your topic, mothe's love is the most selfless in the world. and i like the sentence responsed in your discussion saying that " God made the mother to protect her child". thanks to my mom so many years careing and supporting me to colleage, it's my time to pay back to her.
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
hello hanjianbo, Thank you for your appreciation. I am sure everyone understand and can relate about mother's unceasing love. Yes, GOD made the mother to protect and care for her child. Thanks for your participation and have a good day jaiho®
@rambansal (576)
• India
11 Aug 11
A good write-up of universal feelings on mother's love. It is said - a son could be a bad son, a mother can never be a bad mother. Your expression of these feelings has a lesson to many in the modern societies.
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
hello ram, A mother can never be a bad mother. Actually while I am writing this...I disregard those mothers who abandoned their child-as we can heard /read from the news. Those married woman who get impregnated by other men -elicit affairs-and abandoned the love child or even throwing like a waste /garbage (it's reality) I don't know how to define such kind of love -was it still consider as "mother's love" -or temporary insanity ? whatever. have a good day jaiho®
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
Hello Jaiho, She's the best there is. she respects what I do and get along with others for the sake of the children. I don't know about dad though he sends money but it's not enough for our every day expenses. my mom knows my needs and she gives me break fast every single morning. She's the best there is. maybe i should save my pay out for her own computersome day. I should have thought of that a long time ago. but i guess sharing my pc for her facebook is also good enough
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
dear LK, You don't need to elaborate my dear brother. You have proven enough how much you love your mother. Don't worry about your dad...and if possible think about him less or better think him as a friend (that will help- a sisterly advice) Hope to see you again sis, jaiho®
• India
11 Aug 11
Hi jaiho,in our culture old people says"GOD IS NOT ALWAYS WITH YOU ,SO HE MADE MOTHER WHO IS ALWAYS WITH US,to prevent you,to nourish you ,to punish you ,to love you ,when ever we want somebody help she is there to support you .so mother is god for child.And about father I lost my father when I am 9months old,so mother give me both love ,love of father and love of mother.so my mother love is true love.......
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@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
hello bholebaba, I agree with that "God is not always with us so HE made mothers to be with us always" I can't add no more .... thanks for your response and have a good day jaiho®
@edsss17 (4398)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
Despite how fierce my mom is, I value her so much. I love her with all of my heart! I have an extraordinary mom which I am very much proud of! :) Such a good discussion my lady!
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
my lady, I know how much you love your parents providing all your topics and how you express your feelings towards your family. Your wish and dreams to help them in your little ways. have a good day my dear jaiho®
@edsss17 (4398)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
Thanks my lady! I didn't know that all my topics reflects my emotions and the real me.. Well, am just being me! Thank you for being a good friend!
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
It reflects the real you,and I am sure being yourself is your greatest asset.
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
hi jaiho, In our society when a man cheats to his wife they will say "It's natural as a man" but if a woman cheats on her husband they will say "she is a worthless one even cursed her", when a man leaves his family for another one it's fine, but when a woman aborted her child she is a sinner life is unfair they only see the wrong side of a woman when she made a single mistake and rarely appreciate her hundred sacrifice. see you tomorrow happy mylotting
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
bhaby, This is reality, even though how much sacrifices the mother/wife gave for her family every good deeds will not be credited once she made a single mistake. So bad...where is equality and freedom for women when it comes to this situation See you tomorrow jaiho®
@thanks1961 (7049)
• India
11 Aug 11
I think ‘love’ is one such a feeling that cannot be defined, or whatever definitions that we give is not good enough because of its importance and its values. May be the feeling is differently experience by all of us and when the term ‘love’ applies to various situations, the meaning get change depending on person to person and situation to situation. In fact when love handles with its respective meaning, it is simply great and it should be experienced. Just like a love from a mother to a child, father to a daughter, h/b to wife, wife to h/b and what else not? Whenever we speak of love, it can be applied to everywhere, if we smile to a stranger itself can be a kind of affection or love to the other person only. A puppy is getting loved by its mother dog. A calf, even a small kitten is blessed by its mother. So, love in whatever form is always greatly appreciated. Conditional love and such terms are the product of the corporate world and if we really want to feel the love, we should come down to our bottom steps and feel to be realized. Love can be passionate, greed, and it has its own diversions. But the pure love is only exists when our mind speak to someone without words and it communicates between the minds through their eyes and looks. All should be experience, perhaps as you are in this age, you must have experienced everything and I think there is no need of talking all, because we all are already covered a better part of our life. Thank-s
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
hello thanks, I have written what I feel and my in-put and outlook about mother's love and other love. A mother's love is the best example...that carry all and every definition whatever kind of love is here in this world. I really appreciate your contribution and thank you for coming always to my topic. have a good day jaiho®