a friend just died...

@kheydia (882)
Philippines
August 11, 2011 8:11am CST
Just know about it in fb today, she died yesterday the cause of her death is severe loss of blood in child birth, good thing that the baby survive, but i feel sad about the baby she will grow up without seeing her mother, and the father feel so sad for him too, they are still in the honeymoon stage i think.. i don't know if the doctor in charge is the one to blame for the loss.... we just can't trust some doctor's now a days...i feel sad for that...
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
This is very sad, very tragic experience for the husband and poor little baby lost the mother without seeing her. This is one of the heart breaking truth when we lost someone we love so much. Giving life and dying ...this is how mother's love becomes great next to God's love. have a great weekend jaiho®
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
yeah, very sad indeed knowing all these happened. But i think they are already comforted..
@viju0410 (2286)
• India
12 Aug 11
It is really sad and these days we just can't blame the doctors as the doctors advises operation or Cesarean when the complications are noticed timely. It must have been a highly complected case and our modern advanced medical system could not save the mother. Feels very bad for the husband... he is sad as he lost his wife but he have a reason to smile as he's a father.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
Yes, hopefully he can manage it well, as he has family and friends to help him...
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
People always say that when a mother is giving birth, she has one feet in the grave. Meaning there is always a 50/50 percent chance that she will survive. There are many complications that could arise during childbirth. That is why we are being taught to appreciate our moms because they literally risked their lives to bring us into this world. My condolences to your friend and her family, I do hope that someone, a sister or a mother who would step in an be willing to help out the young father in taking care of his child.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
11 Aug 11
True, if i were just living near them, i would volunteer, but i know that they can manage they have their families and friends there to help the father... thanks...
• Philippines
12 Aug 11
That is so sad.I feel sorry for the father and the baby also. She'll grow up without her mom but still lucky to have her father so be positive and hold on. That's life and we must learn also to accept though it hurts.
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
yeas indeed, important thing is that we donot dwel on things that will hold us from growing, we must yet move forward..
@thetis74 (1525)
11 Aug 11
Oh my goodness. I am so sorry to hear that. It scares me a little because I have placenta previa and loss of too much blood would be possible. I do hope my placenta is back in place now so I don't have to take c-section or bleed too much. Please God be there for me. I'm sure the baby's daddy will take care of him well.